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Dispelling a Lie about God and Prayer

There is a non-biblical belief that has entered the church, and the hearts of many Christians in our day an age.  It's one, like many, that hints of truth, but is laced with a disarming lie.  It is something that causes many Christians to relax, forfeit, and give up in prayer; even to the point of setting the Sword of the Spirit down for lengthy times.  The statement/idea is this:  "Prayer is an important thing, but God is going to do what He's going to do (whether I pray or not)."


It's important that we look at what Scripture says is true in this matter.  First, let's look at the importance of Scripture-based wisdom.

My son, if you accept my words
    and store up my commands within you,
turning your ear to wisdom
    and applying your heart to understanding—
indeed, if you call out for insight
    and cry aloud for understanding,
and if you look for it as for silver
    and search for it as for hidden treasure,
then you will understand the fear of the Lord
    and find the knowledge of God.
For the Lord gives wisdom;
    from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.
He holds success in store for the upright,
    he is a shield to those whose walk is blameless,
for he guards the course of the just
    and protects the way of his faithful ones.

Then you will understand what is right and just
    and fair—every good path.
10 For wisdom will enter your heart,
    and knowledge will be pleasant to your soul.
11 Discretion will protect you,
    and understanding will guard you.
12 Wisdom will save you from the ways of wicked men,

    from men whose words are perverse,
13 who have left the straight paths
    to walk in dark ways,
14 who delight in doing wrong
    and rejoice in the perverseness of evil,
15 whose paths are crooked
    and who are devious in their ways. - Proverbs 2:1-15


God has given us Scripture to be the foundation of our truth and faith.  He's given His Holy Spirit to correct, guide, and shape us in all truth.  And He's given us other Spirit-filled Christians to also correct, challenge, encourage, and more. 


But as so often happens, we can be deceived by lies or partial truths shared by others when a statement isn't held up to Scriptural truth and guidance by the Holy Spirit, combined. 

When a concept or idea comes along that tickles the mind or heart; its seemingly cute, lofty, or new/different nature shouldn't make it an automatic "must-share" with others.  We would do well to test the spirits, examine the Word, and ask the Holy Spirit to show us what's true before we spout whatever the latest phrase, teaching, or buzz-word is being given the spotlight inside or outside of Christian circles.

Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, but every spirit that does not acknowledge Jesus is not from God. This is the spirit of the antichrist, which you have heard is coming and even now is already in the world. - 1 John 4:1-3

Unbalancing God

The concept of "God is going to do what He's going to do (and there's nothing I can do by prayer or anything else to change it)," is simply not true.  Yes, it's true that God is sovereign (able to do what He pleases, whenever He pleases, in His holy perfection).  But let's not forget that God has innumerable attributes- each one perfect in itself and in perfect harmony with all the others! 

The statement we're considering places God's sovereignty under a microscope and makes it appear to be the only attribute that matters.  This kind of thing (overemphasizing a truth or attribute) has happened often throughout history; and when it has, false teachers and teachings have followed that have led/misled millions away from Christ by weakening their faith in Him or by outright leading them into an ungodly cult or occult practices. 

This statement may sound harsh or extreme, but spiritual half-truths (masked as truth, or sometimes as the popular thing to believe or do) are not to be handled lightly- and especially so apart from close comparison to Scripture and what the Spirit accurately says about the matter/statement!


A Correct Way to Think

In Ezekiel 22, God reveals to Ezekiel what He plans to do regarding Jerusalem's sins.  Jerusalem had become sinful and wicked in the eyes of God (but not to themselves).  It's worth reading, praying, and taking to heart what God says in this passage - see Ezekiel 22:1-29.


But then God says, "“I looked for someone among them who would build up the wall and stand before me in the gap on behalf of the land so I would not have to destroy it, but I found no one.  So I will pour out my wrath on them and consume them with my fiery anger, bringing down on their own heads all they have done, declares the Sovereign Lord.” - Ezekiel 22:30-31

God's will for Jerusalem was for her to repent from her sins and return to Him.  He didn't want to destroy them.  But He is holy, righteous, and just.  There was no one praying.  There was no one to stand in the gap.  There was no one confessing their sins, or those of Jerusalem before God; no one repenting from their sins.  They were "letting God be God" and were not considering their ways by His Word.  They reveled in their sins and neglected personal relationship with God.  The result was rampant sin that God, in His holiness, righteousness, and total perfection, had to deal with directly, justly, and righteously.  His will (Jerusalem's repentance) was not accomplished- and all because there was nobody to pray or stand in the gap by prayer.

God continues to look for people to pray- to seek His face, to intercede and intervene on behalf of men before Him, and on His behalf to men.  But if we neglect prayer and check out of both our relationship and responsibility with Him, why should we expect mercy from God in our sin-filled culture or nation?


Standing in the Gap

In Exodus 32, we read where Moses interceded on behalf of the Israelites.  God tells Moses that his people were worshiping a golden idol that they had fashioned into the shape of a calf.  God's anger was aroused because of their sin and idolatry, and He told Moses that He would destroy the people and make a new and great nation out of Moses and his descendants.  

But Moses sought the favor of the LORD his God.  He asked God to remember why He brought them out of Egypt- to reveal to them and others His great power, might and Name; also that He would make Abraham's descendents as numerous as the stars in the sky.  God relents, but there still are consequences to sin that are meted out.  The whole nation wasn't destroyed, but some were due to their idolatry, wickedness, and unrepentant hearts.

Later, in verse 30, Moses confronts the Israelites about their sins, then goes before God on their behalf seeking forgiveness of their sins.  Read Exodus 32

So he said he would destroy them—
    had not Moses, his chosen one,
stood in the breach (gap) before him
    to keep his wrath from destroying them. - Psalm 106:23

We see here that God was not going to stop unless someone prayed.  This time, someone did (Moses).

Prayer is the way God has chosen to accomplish His will on earth.  If we choose not to pray, we won't see His will be done.  


Too often, we ask little, expect little, and then are surprised when we receive little from God.


It's a strong reminder that God is a Perfect Gentleman.  He won't prevent us from sinning if we choose to do so.  He yields the right of way to us (He's given us free will because He's great enough to correct us and renew us- if we let Him) and will let us do what we choose to do- whether it matches up with His perfect will or not.

He won't make us pray.  He's a Perfect Gentleman.  While He wants to partner with us to see His perfect will accomplished in, through, and around us, He won't force us to do so.  It's our choice.  We'll "have it our way," as a fast food company's slogan once said.

He's waiting on us to seek Him in His Word, by His Spirit, and in prayer with other Spirit-filled Christians.  He's a Perfect Gentleman.  He's patient, but He won't wait forever.

Let's consider our ways (in light of Scripture and ask the Holy Spirit to search, know, and correct us where we're out of line).  Let's do what we must to realign our hearts with God's and His truth, then continue in prayer- seeking God for what He wants to accomplish through our prayers; listening to His promptings on how to pray, then faithfully pray as He leads. 

His will won't be accomplished without you.  You matter more to God, and His plan for the world, than you realize!

Let's pray.

Father, I confess that too often I check out from prayer and Your presence.  I look at natural conditions and assume that things are going the way You design- even when there's sin, pain, death, and destruction.  But Father, I'm failing to pray.  I'm failing to seek You in prayer to ask what You want accomplished in that moment, life, or circumstance.  I've too often relied on my natural eyes and thinking, and have neglected to ask You to show me what You see, how You'd like me to pray, and if there's anything else You'd have me do in that moment.  Renew my mind by Your Word, and correct and refine me by your Holy Spirit.  Teach me Your ways, and help me to live in them; practically working them out in my day-to-day life. I want Your perfect will to be done on earth as it is in Heaven, but I also want to pray as specifically as You'll allow me; not just in generalities.  Teach me to pray, to seek Your face; and have Your way in and through me.  You are my Help, Strength, Joy, and so much more.  I worship and praise You as You shepherd me forward.  In Jesus' name, Amen.

* Portions of this were written from notes taken at a prayer conference talk by Dave Butts, Chairman of the National Day of Prayer Committee.

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In 1 Samuel chapter 1, we read about Elkanah and his wives Penninah and Hannah.  God had given favor to Penninah.  She birthed sons and daughters to Elkanah.  Hannah, however, was barren. 

Each year, as Elkanah would travel with his wives and children to Shiloh to worship and sacrifice to the Lord, Penninah would, at some point, provoke and irritate Hannah over her barrenness.  This troubled Hannah to the point of weeping and being unable to eat.


But then we read Hannah's prayer in verse 11: "Lord Almighty, if you will only look on your servant’s misery and remember me, and not forget your servant but give her a son, then I will give him to the Lord for all the days of his life, and no razor will ever be used on his head.”

In verse 12, we read that this wasn't a one-time or one-off prayer.  "As she kept on praying to the LORD, Eli observed her mouth.  Hannah was praying in her heart, and her lips were moving but her voice was not heard."  Her prayer was a prayer of desperation.

For full context, read 1 Samuel 1 in its entirety.  Later, she stops praying after Eli blesses her by agreeing with her desire for the Lord to grant her favor.

Hannah, certainly frustrated, then provoked in her barrenness, could have tried to do many things to overcome her frustration.  But she went to the Person she knew would make a difference; the Lord!  She humbled herself and prayed.  She didn't hide her fear, frustration, tears, or shame.  She let it out before the Lord- to the point where she could no longer speak her prayers aloud (God still knew her heart- even if others around her didn't).

Hannah humbled herself before God (and around others, too) in prayer.  God gave her favor (as she had specifically prayed), opened her womb, and gave her a son.  In return, she was thankful and obedient to fulfill her vows to the Lord; giving her son (one of the specific answers to her prayers), Samuel, at a very young age to serve the Lord.

But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” - James 4:6


Trust in the Lord with all your heart
    and lean not on your own understanding;
in all your ways submit to him,
    and he will make your paths straight.
Do not be wise in your own eyes;
    fear the Lord and shun evil.
This will bring health to your body
    and nourishment to your bones. - Proverbs 3:5-8


Chapter 2 opens with Hannah's prayer of praise, truth, wisdom, understanding, and strength.  We can learn a lot about God, and ourselves, by what Hannah prays here!


“My heart rejoices in the Lord;

    in the Lord my horn (strength) is lifted high.
My mouth boasts over my enemies,
    for I delight in your deliverance.
“There is no one holy like the Lord;

    there is no one besides you;
    there is no Rock like our God.

“Do not keep talking so proudly

    or let your mouth speak such arrogance,
for the Lord is a God who knows,
    and by him deeds are weighed.
“The bows of the warriors are broken,

    but those who stumbled are armed with strength.
Those who were full hire themselves out for food,
    but those who were hungry are hungry no more.
She who was barren has borne seven children,
    but she who has had many sons pines away.
“The Lord brings death and makes alive;

    he brings down to the grave and raises up.
The Lord sends poverty and wealth;
    he humbles and he exalts.
He raises the poor from the dust
    and lifts the needy from the ash heap;
he seats them with princes
    and has them inherit a throne of honor.
“For the foundations of the earth are the Lord’s;

    on them he has set the world.
He will guard the feet of his faithful servants,
    but the wicked will be silenced in the place of darkness.

“It is not by strength that one prevails;
10     those who oppose the Lord will be broken.
The Most High will thunder from heaven;
    the Lord will judge the ends of the earth.

“He will give strength to his king
    and exalt the horn of his anointed.”


Hannah remembered to give thanks to the Lord!  But she did more than give a simple thank you to God.  She offered Him praise and honor; bringing glory to His name- for she recognized that all that happened was done by Him.  She worshiped Him, thanked Him, prayed truth about Him and others.  All this helped remind her, and others, of the mightiness of God and the low position of man before Him.


Our sinful nature, spurred on by our flesh, the world's influence, and our adversary, often tempts us to do this or that; ignore this matter, or make a bigger deal out of something than it really is- all as a means to distract us from God; the One who knows us, hears us, loves us, and does all of this and more in degrees far beyond what we understand or comprehend!  We miss out on so much of God by trying to solve matters out of our own knowledge or strength first; often leaving the humbling of ourselves in prayer to be the very last thing we'll do or consider.

Then, the same forces working against us will do whatever possible to distract us from remembering God when He gives us favor.  We often miss out on glorifying God when He gives favor because of busyness, distractions, stealing a little bit of the favor or credit for ourselves, etc.

Humbling ourselves before God, in matters great and small, places and keeps God before us (keeps Him first in our minds, hearts, and more).  The more we do so, the more we'll see and know Him.  If He truly is our Source, Strength, and All-in-All, we should want more of Him and much less of ourselves!

While we often think of prayer as a means of humbling ourselves before God when we pray, we also do so when we worship Him.  Humbling ourselves aligns our hearts in the right position of where we stand before the Perfect, Holy, Almighty, Omniscient, Omnipresent, God of all.  The Holy Spirit helps us to do so when we yield to Him.  Without His help, it's difficult, if not impossible to do so on our own.  Simply put, God is first.  Everyone and everything else (including ourselves) comes after Him.  When we get out of order, we suffer in many ways (great, and sometimes in imperceptible ways).

There are many lessons to learn from Hannah's story, praises, and prayers.

What are one or two take-aways for you?

Lord, there is no Rock like You.  You are our God.  My heart rejoices in You; for You are lifted high.  In You I find deliverance and delight.  You bring poverty and wealth; you humble and exalt.  The foundations of the earth are the Lord's, and you've set the world upon them.

Continue to teach us to pray- not only for our growth and edification, but ultimately for Your glory- in heaven and on earth.  Lead us in prayer far beyond what's written here.  Holy Spirit, lead us now as we continue to pray...

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In our day and age, many people express words of encouragement to others by saying, "I'm thinking of you today," or "My thoughts and prayers are with you."  Statements like these express care and concern and are meaningful to many who receive them.  Kind thoughts and words can momentarily bolster someone who's experienced a loss; is struggling with loneliness, or may be struggling in one way or another. 

While expressions of encouragement are useful, there's a difference between thoughts and prayers.  What are they?

Wishful Thinking vs. Difference-Making Prayer
"I hope you feel better soon." 

"I wish there was something I could do." 

"I'm thinking of you.  Sending good thoughts your way."

These, and other similar expressions, express heartfelt concern and care.  While they may be encouraging and express care, how far do they go?  On what is the hope, wish, or thought based?
While it's good to express care and concern, it's also good to be careful not to make caring and concern about self.  Phrases like, "I'm sending good thoughts your way" can stem from a puffed-up view of one's self- as though that person is a/the source of good things, thoughts, or activities.  It may also be that the person saying this presumes to know that they're stronger or in a better position than the one they're expressing concern for.  Regardless, that statement can come off as self-centered or as at least self-glorifying.

For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out. - Romans 7:18

We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves.  Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up.  For even Christ did not please himself but, as it is written: “The insults of those who insult you have fallen on me.”  For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide we might have hope.

May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.


Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God. - Romans 15:1-7

One way to build up our neighbor (friends, family, others around us) is to pray.  Praying for someone else sets them ahead of ourselves.  God brings encouragement to the person praying, as well as the person receiving prayer, as we seek Him to accomplish His will in that person's life.


This passage also points toward the Scriptures as the source of endurance, encouragement, and hope.  In Scripture we, and others we pray for, find hope.  It's a good reminder to search the Scriptures for appropriate verses and passages to pray for/with those we pray for!

Prayer is much different than merely thinking.  Going to the Creator, Author and Perfecter of our faith; the All-Knowing, Ever-present, Loving, Gracious, Merciful, Just, Righteous, Wise, All-Powerful God in prayer is where significant differences are made!  Prayer goes beyond simple wishful thinking and whimsical hope.  When we pray, we carry the concern, problem, or matter directly to the One who can alter circumstances and outcomes.  He fully knows all the circumstances and lives surrounding the person or matter in question- but He's also waiting on His children to invite Him to act!  He is a Perfect Gentleman- and will not intrude, even if He desires to do so.  He wants His children to prayerfully engage Him first!


Caution Against Presumptive Praying
Most people are curious and caring people.  When praying for someone in stress or distress, it's often tempting to imagine or guess what the person is thinking or going through right at that moment.  Based on that guess or assumption, one may feel led to pray based on that imagination.  But can we be sure that our assumption or imagination is accurate or how God would have us pray?

A Better Way to First Pray Instead of Presuming

A very simply way to unclutter one's heart from taking on thoughts that might lead to praying presumptively is to simply pray something like, "Lord, I give my mind and heart to You.  Align them with Yours.  Please instruct me how You'd have me pray for ___________ at this time." 

Then be still and listen for His prompting on how to pray. 

God, who is all-knowing, knows exactly where the person is physically, emotionally, and spiritually.  He also knows perfectly what He desires to do in or around that person's life (emotionally and spiritually, too)!  As praying people, we desire to see our prayers answered and God glorified as He answers.  An excellent way to do so is to ask God how He'd have us pray (seeking His will to be done, instead of our own). 

Real Hope

The Lord sustains the humble
    but casts the wicked to the ground.

His pleasure is not in the strength of the horse,
    nor his delight in the legs of the warrior;
the Lord delights in those who fear him,
    who put their hope in his unfailing love.

- Psalm 147:6,10-11

Praying people humble themselves before God.  The promise above mentions that God sustains the humble.  Praying people, while humbling themselves, are also expressing fear of the Lord (defined as awe, wonder, yielding to His majesty, power, and perfection).  The Lord delights in them; those who put their hope in his unfailing love (verse 11).  Here, hope is placed in the Lord, our Difference-Maker; not in self, or in some wishful ethereal place, thought, or desire.

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. - Romans 15:13
God is our source of hope, joy, and peace as we trust in Him.  Hoping or searching for joy, peace, and other things from other sources will always fall flat in comparison.  The power of God, through the Holy Spirit, provides hope that is solid and sustaining!

See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him.  Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.  All who have this hope in him purify themselves, just as he is pure. - 1 John 3:1-3

Hoping in and seeking God purifies (renews) our minds, hearts, and lives.  In Him we receive His limitless love.  In Him we're called children of God.  What a title and position He's given us!  Let's continually fix our prayers, hope, focus, attention, love, and more on God the Father and Jesus Christ! 

My hope is built on nothing less
Than Jesus' blood and righteousness;
I dare not trust the sweetest frame,
But wholly lean on Jesus' name.
On Christ, the solid Rock, I stand;
All other ground is sinking sand. - "My Hope is Built on Nothing Less"


Following Through in Prayer

God knows our thoughts and minds.  While we can think good things and hopes toward others, prayer is what puts those thoughts into motion.  Prayer is what moves caring, concerned (but idle) thoughts into active pleas and sets those pleas before God- who can make a substantive difference in that moment, person, or matter.


So, move beyond merely thinking and wishing.  Take the matter to Him.  Engage God in prayer!  You'll likely notice a difference both in the person/matter you're praying for- as well as in yourself as God meets you, grows your faith, and more!

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An Arabic Christian woman once shared some challenges and concerns she was facing.  An American couple, listening to her, said, "We'll pray for you."

The woman replied, "No, you won't!  Americans are quick to promise others that they'll pray for them, but then they walk away and never follow through!"

The couple, stunned by the women's response, then asked, "How do you know?"

"Because I never see a change in my life or circumstances.  There would be a significant difference if they actually prayed!"

Wow!

This lady had faith in God to change things by the power of prayer.  This should challenge us to consider, or reconsider how we make promises; how we view prayer, its effectiveness, and the importance to faithfully pray.

Jesus spoke specifically about how we use words and promises (oaths):

“Again, you have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘Do not break your oath, but fulfill to the Lord the vows you have made.’  But I tell you, do not swear an oath at all: either by heaven, for it is God’s throne;  or by the earth, for it is his footstool; or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King.  And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black.  All you need to say is simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one. - Matthew 5:33-37

James agrees:  Above all, my brothers and sisters, do not swear—not by heaven or by earth or by anything else. All you need to say is a simple “Yes” or “No.” Otherwise you will be condemned. - James 5:12

As Christians, we mean well when we promise others that we'll pray for them.  But so often, as we busy ourselves with tasks, goals, service, objectives, missions, and more, we can quickly lose sight of promises made to others.  Distractions happen to everyone.  Our promises can be put on a back burner, but sometimes they're left there and are lost.  We can do much better!

We damage our Christian testimony, reduce God's name and glory,  and can even damage another person's faith or trust in God when we fail to follow through when we promise to pray!

Is there a way to avoid turning our promise into something that is neither beneficial to the person promised prayer or we, ourselves, who promised to pray?

Absolutely!  Invest prayer into that person, circumstance, or matter right that instant!  What better time to pray than on site in that moment!? 

If you find yourself in a grocery checkout line, or another site where there's a lot of hustle and bustle all around, ask the person requesting prayer (or the person you offered to pray for) if you could step aside with them to somewhere nearby that's a bit out of the way so you can pray together.  It's highly unlikely that they'll decline your offer to pray right there and then (unless you're out in the open in a country that's closed or makes it difficult for Christians practicing their faith in public.  Even then, there are ways to discreetly pray with one another).


What if I don't know what to pray for in that moment?

Jesus said, "Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father.  And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it."

“If you love me, keep my commands.  And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever—  the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you.  I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you." - John 14:12-18

God is faithful.  As God is perfectly faithful, so is Jesus and the Holy Spirit.

Silently ask the Lord to give you biblical insight; His insight, in how to pray for that person in the moment.  It's likely the person/people requesting prayer shared a matter concerning them- so you likely already have a matter to pray about.  You can begin praying by praising God for one or more of His attributes.  Then as He quiets your heart (if it's stirred or worked up), you can pray for the matter they requested.  As you're praying, if the Lord downloads to your mind something else to pray for in that time (joy, peace, patience, self-control, other fruits of the Spirit, increased knowledge, faith, trust, understanding, relationship, etc. with God), pray it silently or aloud as the Spirit prompts you to do so.  Note: praying aloud, in a Christ-centered, non-condemning fashion, can be an avenue in which God brings significant hope, peace, or joy to a troubled heart!  As the other person/people hear you pray, God may do a work in their hearts they (or you) hadn't anticipated- bringing increased glory to His name and Himself!  Let the Holy Spirit guide you.  Don't try to pray only from your own thoughts or imaginings.


What if I disagree with how they've asked me to pray?

This seldom happens, but again, ask God for wisdom in how to pray in that moment.  It's okay to take a few moments to pray silently before you begin speaking in prayer.  In that time, God may quiet your heart, give you His insight in how He'd have you pray as well as honor the person/people requesting prayer, etc.  Again, begin praying aloud by praising God for who He is.  Center the focus on God.  He matters most.  The matter, as well as the people you're praying for/with, are His.  Pray biblically.

Changing Our Culture by Praying On Site

Would you be encouraged if someone offered to pray for you, then followed through in prayer that moment while you were at the park, running errands, in the break room at work, at the store, in a parking lot, in your home, or somewhere else where prayer is seldom if ever practiced?  I imagine you would be encouraged!

While we don't pray publicly to be seen by others, imagine what God might begin doing in the hearts of other Christians, or even non-Christians, if personal prayer became more prominent in public places. 

1.  He would bring increasing encouragement to those sharing and receiving prayer in those moments.  An increase in faith in Jesus is good for all!

2.  Christians who are afraid to speak or act out their faith in public may begin stepping out in faith to listen to others, pray, and share their faith in Jesus Christ. 

3.  God, who can and does immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20) would be more openly sought after, praised, and glorified in public- as well as in private.  Our society and world would benefit greatly from this!

Why should we hold back and not pray?  Let's get out of our own way (setting aside fear and vain imaginings) and seek Him to do immeasurably more- for His glory!  He will do so as we follow through and pray!

The time of being fearful of what others might think or say has passed!  Let's press through the fear, by the Lord's strength- and not our own; pursue the Lord, and His best, for those around us.

How will you follow through in prayer today or this week? 


Lord, we love you and we desire for you to be known and loved by all we come in contact with.  Yet, we confess, that we often talk or imagine a good game but fail to follow through.  In our flesh and good intentions we fall woefully short.  We turn our eyes to you, Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith (Heb. 12:2) to increase in us those things that will bring You the greatest glory.  Have your way, fully, in us, then through us.

Lord, give us opportunities to seek you and practice praying with others around us; then help us follow through, learn, grow, and glorify You as we do so in your strength!

Quicken our hearts to be in constant communication with you; listening as well as speaking.  Reveal to us anything in our hearts that is hindering you from accomplishing your works, and the even greater works that Jesus spoke about in John 14.  As we pray for you to bring Revival, begin in me; in us first.  Do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine (Eph. 3:20).

We continue exalting you in prayer, praise, and thanksgiving.  In Jesus' name...

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In Matthew 6, Jesus instructs and models how to pray.  He shows how we can connect with the heart of God through worship and adoration (hallowing, or exalting, God's name above our own and all others).  He points us to pray for God's will to be done here one earth, as His will is currently being done in heaven.  He directs us to pray that our daily needs are met in Him.  Jesus also shows us how we can pray for our sins/debts to be forgiven- as well as seeking God to help us forgive others who have sinned against us.  Lastly, Jesus shows us that we can pray for wisdom when it comes to dealing with temptation(s), as well as God's strength in overcoming temptations of all kinds.


Twice, in Luke 22:39-46, Jesus instructs his disciples to pray that they would not fall into temptation. 


39 
Jesus went out as usual to the Mount of Olives, and his disciples followed him.
40 On reaching the place, he said to them, “Pray that you will not fall into temptation.” 41 He withdrew about a stone’s throw beyond them, knelt down and prayed, 42 “Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done.” 43 An angel from heaven appeared to him and strengthened him. 44 And being in anguish, he prayed more earnestly, and his sweat was like drops of blood falling to the ground.

45 When he rose from prayer and went back to the disciples, he found them asleep, exhausted from sorrow. 46 “Why are you sleeping?” he asked them. “Get up and pray so that you will not fall into temptation.”

Whether we like it or not, temptations come our way.  We are naturally weak (prone to a variety of hungers, anger, loneliness, tiredness, and more)- no matter how strong we think we might be on our own.  Temptations work on our insufficiencies, and in a strange way, can especially work on us in areas where/when we feel self-sufficient (exposing our pride or lusts).

Temptations give us an opportunity to choose between trusting or leaning on our own perceived strengths, knowledge, or understanding, or to turn to Jesus' all-knowing (omniscient) and all-powerful (omnipotent), Self.  When we turn to Jesus, He empowers us to press through and past the temptation; to see God as greater than the temptation, and help us overcome the thought or matter.

Notice, that when facing temptation, our way of escape is to turn to, lean upon, and focus on Jesus; not to dwell or focus on the temptation or circumstance itself.  Doing the latter will only make it seem more overwhelming and make us focus on our own weakness or inability to overcome the matter in our own ways- thus making it easier to cave in to, or under the weight of the temptation itself.


Turning our focus on God, zeroing in on Him, His Word, and the ministry of His Holy Spirit, helps fill our focus and attention with the One who is greater than all; the One who sent His only Son as a perfect, unblemished, sacrifice for all mankind- that fully and permanently defeated sin, death, and the devil- after being tempted in every way as we are.


Since the children have flesh and blood, he too shared in their humanity so that by his death he might break the power of him who holds the power of death—that is, the devil—
15 and free those who all their lives were held in slavery by their fear of death. 16 For surely it is not angels he helps, but Abraham’s descendants. 17 For this reason he had to be made like them, fully human in every way, in order that he might become a merciful and faithful high priest in service to God, and that he might make atonement for the sins of the people. 18 Because he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.
  - Hebrews 2:14-18

Praying for Teens

Teenagers, as we all, are tempted daily to set ourselves, our motivations, goals, desires, and more ahead of God.  Narcissism, exalting of others and things, and more, are constantly working to turn and tear people, young and old, away from focusing upon God alone.

Parents, grandparents, and Christians of all ages and backgrounds, often struggle how to pray for children, youth, and teenagers.

It's important that we make and keep God as the first and only center of our prayers.  There are many things working to turn our attention, focus, even our prayers, and ability to pray, away from Him and His Word.


Bob Hostetler offers 31 ways to pray for your teen (or a teenager you know or see around you).  His first prayer point is vital to pray; and the Scriptures that each prayer point is focused or centered upon are worth looking up, reading, and praying through individually beyond simply praying or parroting what he's written!

Praying for Your Teen is a link with additional Scripture-based prayer points to help focus on praying for teens.  A statement in the article, "There is a myth that teenagers cannot practice self-control, that the teenage and young adult years are the time for "sewing wild oats", and Scriptures refuting that idea, are also valuable.

As you'll see as you read and pray through many of the Scriptures and prayer points offered in these links, you may also find that you pray some of these points for yourself and your personal walk with Jesus Christ.  That's perfectly okay!

God often does His greatest work of answered prayer in the heart of the person praying- although He often reveals ways He's answered our prayers for others in their lives/circumstances as well.  Our personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ is our most valuable possession- and it's one of, if not THE most valuable possession to God as well.  Let's continue seeking and pressing into Him through today, tonight, and the day(s) to come.  Whether we focus our prayers on children, teens, ourselves, or others, we won't be disappointed as we turn to God as our Rock, Center, Stronghold, and more!

In His grip,

Rob Griepentrog

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Thursday, May 1st, is the National Day of Prayer in the U.S.  The National Day of Prayer Committee's website lists over 40,000 prayer events nation-wide (and those are just the ones listed or registered on the site)!

One needs to look no further than a daily newspaper, an online news source, or even talking to a friend, neighbor, or co-worker, to know some of the many things that make our nation and its people unholy and ill.  We see matters like murders, suicides, gang-related matters, drug abuse (legal and illegal), hatred, worry, self-absorption (in seeking endless opportunities to be entertained or to entertain others; be seen, read, or observed... via social media and other outlets), and more.  But there's a common thread- a common denominator in all these societal matters.  It's an exalting of self over God.

Few people consider prayerlessness as a matter that falls into that category as well.  In fact, prayerlessness isn't something that most people think about.  We tend to focus on what interests us most in the moment.  If what interests us most isn't God, then self is occupying that place.


So, as we pray, and prepare to pray for God to revive and awaken our nation, where do we begin?

Revival vs. Awakening

There's a difference between Revival and Awakening that's important to first define.

Revival happens to Christians.  It can come when God is sought to increase a Christian's depth of relationship with Himself, an increasing awareness of God's constant and holy presence, and often is worked out in a complete turning over of self and one's pursuits for God's shaping and direction.  Revival begins in an individual's heart, humbled by God and before God.  Historically, this sometimes has happened when a group of Christians, praying in a similar heart-felt and biblical manner, seek Him; although it always begins within one's personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ. 

Revival is often equated with a Christian who has wandered away from his First Love, Jesus Christ; but it always yields a growing desire to draw nearer to God and be conformed more into His image and ways.

Awakening:  Awakening is a term used that describes God's wooing of hearts, convicting of sins, and turning of hearts toward Himself and away from self or other sources that have taken or are keeping Him out of His rightful place as #1 in one's heart.  Awakening happens amongst non-Christians, although also within churches- within attendees who've never received Jesus as Lord and Savior or have entered into a personal relationship with Him.

How We Can Pray


Every nation is made up of sizable groupings of people- just as states, cities, or neighborhoods are (in varying sizes and numbers).  But before praying a "blanket", all-encompassing, general, prayer for God to revive Christians and awaken non-Christians across our land, let's begin individually- with ourselves.

Withdraw to a place that separates you from people or things that would distract or draw your attention away from God.  This could be a car, a park, a quiet room, garage, bedroom, closet, backyard, or any place that helps set time and space apart for God.

Worship God, and ask Him to search your heart.  God desires our hearts to be sinless and pure as we approach Him.  By asking Him to search us, His Spirit will quicken our hearts to realize ways we've sinned against Him and/or others.  As He does so, confess those to God so that the slate is wiped clean.  No sin is too great to be covered by Jesus' death on the cross.  Therefore there's no condemnation for sins that have been confessed to God. 

Psalm 139 offers some simple, yet powerful Scripture to pray:

Search me, God, and know my heart;
    test me and know my anxious thoughts.
See if there is any offensive way in me,
    and lead me in the way everlasting.
-Psalm 139:23-24

You have searched me, Lord,
    and you know me.
You know when I sit and when I rise;
    you perceive my thoughts from afar.
You discern my going out and my lying down;
    you are familiar with all my ways.
-Psalm 139:1-3

Next, be still.  Listen for His reply.  He may answer with a prompting to your heart, your mind, or in another way.  If you're not familiar with praying, listening, or being still before Him in this way, you may also ask God to help you discern His voice and promptings over others that may attempt to intrude.  Remember:  God will never instruct you to do anything unholy or unrighteous.  He can not be other than who He is- holy.  He won't instruct any of His children to sin or be unholy.  He will bring conviction of sin; but as a means to draw the heart to confession and repentance.  When that happens, that particular heart becomes workable, pliable, and useful in His hands.

As you continue your time with God, ask Him if there is any Scripture that He'd have you read, meditate upon, or pray through.  Listen for His voice, then obediently follow as He instructs.

In America, we're quick to pray for matters on our hearts, serve those requests up to God, then dart away like a young child rushing back to play with friends.  Yet to receive God's ongoing wisdom, affection, and much more, we must invest our time personally with Him- in prayerful worship, praise, thanksgiving, sharing of requests, more worship, and more time still (even while we're active in daily routines and activities.  It's possible!).  To unplug from Him, rush off to an event, activity, TV show, movie, game, or something else, is to greatly short-change both short and long-term joy, love, peace, wisdom, relationship, and much more that comes from being and dwelling in His presence!

The same is true when we focus prayer on the revival and awakening of people in our nation.  If May 1st is the only day we set apart to pray accordingly, then we dart away from our First Love to other loves competing for our attention and hearts, we lose out on a great deal more than we realize!  God is a jealous God, as well as perfect in love, grace, trust, power, truth, wisdom, and much more.  He wants us to place and keep Him as our First Love.

So, as you pray today, tomorrow, on the day set aside as the National Day of Prayer, and other days, seek ongoing revival in your heart with God.  Seek Him to lead, instruct, and shape your heart, how you pray, and more.  You'll quickly find a growing hunger and appetite for His presence and Word- and there's no greater benefit of revival than God Himself!

The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.

So then, dear friends, since you are looking forward to this, make every effort to be found spotless, blameless and at peace with him.  Bear in mind that our Lord’s patience means salvation, just as our dear brother Paul also wrote you with the wisdom that God gave him. Therefore, dear friends, since you have been forewarned, be on your guard so that you may not be carried away by the error of the lawless and fall from your secure position. But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen. - 2 Peter 3:9,14-15, 17-18
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Most Christians, at some point in their lives, experience difficulty praying.  For some, it occurs for a season.  But for others, thoughts of inadequacy bombard them into surrendering the greatest weapon of their warfare; their personal connection with God the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective. - James 5:16b

This is a verse that seems to create angst in the hearts of some believers; and is one that many people wrestle with in their hearts and minds.  What is the definition of a righteous man?  In other words, whose prayers are powerful and effective?  How much righteousness is enough for a person's prayer to be powerful and effective?

Our adversary, Satan, knows Scriptures well and is one who works to twist meanings to his own ends.  For many Christians, when they read this passage, they surrender, thinking, "I know my sins and my sinful triggers.  I'm not righteous as God is righteous.  Therefore, God doesn't hear or answer my prayers because they're neither powerful or effective.  What's the point of praying?"

Adversarial Perspective

Then I heard a loud voice in heaven say
:

“Now have come the salvation and the power
    and the kingdom of our God,
    and the authority of his Messiah.
For the accuser of our brothers and sisters,
    who accuses them before our God day and night,
    has been hurled down. - Revelation 12:10

In Revelation, God gives us a historical glimpse into heaven and reminds us of the power, kingdom, and salvation He made available to us through the Messiah's birth, life, and resurrection from the dead.  He also reports of Satan's wickedness, then expulsion from heaven (being hurled down to earth in the blink of an eye).  Satan's chief goals are also revealed; to accuse brothers and sisters in Christ before God- a futile effort, but one he persists in doing.  In addition to accusing Christ followers before God, he also works to accuse, guilt, and shame Christians into withdrawing from prayer; connecting with the heart of God by communicating with Him regularly, frequently, or without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17).

We read on:

They triumphed over him
    by the blood of the Lamb
    and by the word of their testimony;
they did not love their lives so much
    as to shrink from death.
Therefore rejoice, you heavens
    and you who dwell in them!
But woe to the earth and the sea,
    because the devil has gone down to you!
He is filled with fury,
    because he knows that his time is short.”
- Revelation 12:11-12

These two verses reveal the rest of the story. 

Christ-followers triumphed over Satan by the blood of the Lamb and the word of their testimony (living out their faith and trust in Jesus- as a result of what He first did for us... giving His perfect, sinless, life to become a holy, spotless, sacrifice for the sins of all)!

We're also reminded that Satan is filled with fury because he knows his days are numbered (and are growing shorter by the moment).  He was cast to earth where he currently works to disturb and disrupt Christians' prayers, as well as to kill, steal, and destroy (John 10:10) Christians' personal relationships with God.  He's also working to keep non-Christians from hearing, learning about, believing, and knowing of their hope of salvation through Jesus Christ our Lord.


But our adversary doesn't have the last word... not even close!


Paul Writes on Unrighteousness and Righteousness

First the bad news, then the good!


What shall we conclude then? Do we have any advantage? Not at all! For we have already made the charge that Jews and Gentiles alike are all under the power of sin.
10 As it is written:

“There is no one righteous, not even one;
11     there is no one who understands;
    there is no one who seeks God.
12 All have turned away,
    they have together become worthless;
there is no one who does good,
    not even one.”
13 “Their throats are open graves;
    their tongues practice deceit.”
“The poison of vipers is on their lips.”
14     “Their mouths are full of cursing and bitterness.”
15 “Their feet are swift to shed blood;
16     ruin and misery mark their ways,
17 and the way of peace they do not know.”
18     “There is no fear of God before their eyes.”

19 Now we know that whatever the law says, it says to those who are under the law, so that every mouth may be silenced and the whole world held accountable to God. 20 Therefore no one will be declared righteous in God’s sight by the works of the law; rather, through the law we become conscious of our sin. - Romans 3:9-20


Here, Paul writes that nobody is righteous by their thoughts, words, or deeds.  There's no natural righteousness in self.  To think one's self to be righteous, apart from God, is to be deceived.  But then he continues...

21 But now apart from the law the righteousness of God has been made known, to which the Law and the Prophets testify. 22 This righteousness is given through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference between Jew and Gentile, 23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, 24 and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. 25 God presented Christ as a sacrifice of atonement, through the shedding of his blood—to be received by faith. He did this to demonstrate his righteousness, because in his forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished— 26 he did it to demonstrate his righteousness at the present time, so as to be just and the one who justifies those who have faith in Jesus. - Romans 3:21-26


Here, Paul completes the rest of the story and answers our question.  While nobody is righteous on their own, Jesus gives us His righteousness through faith in His shed blood on the cross.


For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God. -
2 Cor 5:21 (ESV)


Settling the Matter

Guilt and condemnation are powerful tools in the enemy's hands, and they often are used in ways to mimic authentic conviction.  Believing that we are "not righteous enough" for our prayers to be effective may sound like humility, but in actuality, it is a grotesque lie that the enemy uses rampantly in our churches to cripple and paralyze the confident praying of many believers.

So who does James 5:16b apply to?  Who has the audacious privilege of powerful and effective prayers?  The answer:  ALL who have been made righteous by the sacrifice that Christ made on the cross!

Since then we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus, the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. 15 For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. 16 Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need. - Heb 4:14-16 (ESV)

At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life. This is a trustworthy saying. And I want you to stress these things, so that those who have trusted in God may be careful to devote themselves to doing what is good. These things are excellent and profitable for everyone. - Titus 3:3-8 (emphasis added)



Let's Resume Our Relationship with God

If you've been wrestling in any way with concerns that your life isn't good enough for your prayers to be heard and effective, the matter is settled.  Christ settled it on the cross and with His resurrection from the dead.  If you believe that Jesus did this, your responsibilities are to confess your sins (all sin is sin against God- whether done privately, to somebody else, or a group of people), and grow in deepening relationship with Jesus Christ.  Prayer is the means in which we do both.  Resume praying now and continue growing in love, faith, trust, and depth with the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit!  Your prayers are powerful and effective; made so by the righteousness of Jesus Christ- given to all who believe in Him!


Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray. Is anyone happy? Let them sing songs of praise.  Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord.  And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven.  Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.  Elijah was a human being, even as we are. He prayed earnestly that it would not rain, and it did not rain on the land for three and a half years.  Again he prayed, and the heavens gave rain, and the earth produced its crops. - James 5:13-18

*Portions of this devotional were written by OnSite prayer partner, Ruth Jackson.

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Top Books on Prayer

There are volumes of books and reading material on all subjects and matters; good and bad.  Sir Francis Bacon once wrote, "some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested: that is, some books are to be read only in parts, others to be read, but not curiously, and some few to be read wholly, and with diligence and attention."

With hundreds of books on the subject of prayer, ranging from how-to books, to books that answer why we pray, to books filled with others' written prayers, and more, where does one begin?  What are the best books on prayer out there?

Here's a humble attempt to begin answering these questions.  This list is not exhaustive by any means!


#1- The Bible

The whole counsel of God gives us all we need to pray, study prayer, draw near to the heart of God, and much, much, more.  If there's one book on prayer that's a must to read, re-read, and read again, without question, it's the Bible!


#2- Matthew

Jesus' teaching on how to pray is chock full of wisdom, instruction, and practical application.  Chapter 6 in Matthew is one of the places where Jesus answers His disciples' request, "Lord, teach us to pray."  He models how to pray (worship and exalt God, seek His will to be done in your life and all around you, request for your needs to be met, confess sins and forgive others, request for protection and guidance- also confessing your full reliance on Him, return to worship and continue in praising and worshiping Him).  If you struggle with knowing how best to pray, follow Jesus' example here (and practice substituting your own words in place of reading or reciting Jesus' prayer.  He wants to hear your heart, expressed your way, not only in his modeled way shared in this chapter!).

#3- Psalms

The Bible's book of prayer!  Some psalms center on worshiping God and are helpful to help us worship and praise Him in prayer.  Others are laments mixed with praise and adoration.  Psalms show raw prayer and emotion by David and the other writers of this book.  It's a book that will likely help you expand the ways you pray.  Read and pray through a chapter or section today!


#4- Luke

In Luke 11, Jesus' model prayer is recorded again, but this record shows Jesus' encouragement to continue in prayer; persisting and following through in prayer until God shapes and answers your prayer by His Holy Spirit.  The Holy Spirit helps us pray!


#5- John

John 17 records Jesus' prayers for Himself, his disciples, and for all who follow Him.  In this record, we see Jesus' heart to see the Father's will perfectly accomplished through Him and His followers, plus He gives us another model in how we can pray for ourselves and others (beyond our personal, immediate wants, needs, and desires that can often encompass most if not all we think to pray about).  It's an excellent chapter to read, study, and pray!


#6- 1 Thessalonians

Paul exhorts the Thessalonians to pray in all ways- giving thanks in all things, praying continually, be joyful always (in the Lord's strength), and be careful not to quench or put out the Holy Spirit's fire in willful sin.  Many applications to our daily lives in prayer are listed toward the end of chapter 5.

#7- James

James exhorts his readers to pray and praise in all times and places, and describes ways to go about doing so in all circumstances (James 5).  In Chapter 1,  he also reminds us to be doers of the word, and not only watchers, listeners, and idle observers.


#8- Acts

The first-century followers of Christ prayed together corporately (recorded in chapter 4), and as they did, the Holy Spirit moved upon them and gave them boldness to speak the Word of God with boldness.  This is a great reminder of the importance of praying with others- and seeking God to empower us to speak the Word boldly in the power of the Holy Spirit; not only of our own strength or wisdom!


#9- Ephesians

Paul writes his prayer for the Ephesians toward the end of chapter 3.  It exalts God while covering those he prays for with powerful requests that strengthen them and honor God all at once!  This is another great model of prayer that we can benefit from applying to our lives when we pray!


As you began to read the list, you may have felt a twinge of disappointment if you were expecting a top 10 list of books on prayer that are separate from the Bible itself.  While there are many quality writings on prayer by many authors, recent and past, we are wise to keep our #1 source as the #1 source now and always! 

If you already own a Bible, you already possess all you need for your prayer life

You don't need to invest hundreds or thousands of dollars into building a library of books that will likely catch dust, take up space, and frustrate you in the future if they're left on the shelves unread.  You have all you already need.  Open your Bible to one or more of these books/chapters and before you read a single word, ask the Holy Spirit to reveal truths and practical ways He'd have you pray from what you're about to read.  Ask Him to lead you through what you read.  Thank Him afterward for what He revealed to you, and then pray about what He taught you.

Lord, today and every day, continue to teach us to pray!


Rob Griepentrog

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There are times when a friend, family member, or sometimes even a stranger, presents a prayer need or concern that is shocking or dismaying in the moment.  It might revolve around a great injustice, a sudden terminal or difficult health diagnosis, traffic accident, loss of something or someone significant, or another matter altogether.

For many of us, the first thing we often pray is, "Lord, heal this person or fix this matter!"  Others pray, "Lord, be with this/that person."  It's not wrong to pray like this, but have you considered that there are times when God may desire you to pray a little differently than how you pray out of your natural mind or emotions?

Knee-jerk response prayers can emanate from our emotions responding to the shock, surprise, or feeling of being overwhelmed that can come from learning about a serious or life-changing experience or event. 

But one thing we can forget to pray is, "Lord, please help quiet my heart so that I can accurately hear from You."  Then after He does, ask, "How would You have me pray in this moment, for this person/people, or situation?"  It can make a significant difference in both how you pray, and how you see God answer your prayer(s)!

Knee-Jerk, Stop-Gap, Reactionary Prayers

Knee-jerk, or stop-gap reactionary prayers may serve to help us immediately offer something in the form of prayer while we're attempting to figure out what happened or is happening.  They're also sometimes offered as a quick prayer of comfort or encouragement for the person who's shared the shocking request or is personally requesting prayer.

Many Christians (including me) have offered such prayers, sometimes with an expectation that God will respond in one particular way or another, only to later be disappointed when the condition worsens, the person prayed for passes away, or God doesn't answer in the way we've specifically requested or hoped.  Sometimes the disappointment wounds the Christian's faith in God or makes them question if they can effectively pray again if faced with a similar situation.

The Emotion Factor

God has given all of us emotions.  Happiness, sadness, anger, amazement, wonder, awe, frustration, tiredness, and many more.  Emotions are a gift from God to enhance and embellish our lives.  Without them, our lives, our interactions with God and each other would be very flat, dull, and expressionless.  We can, and should, thank and praise God for giving us emotions- they're a gift He's given us out of His perfect wisdom, love, and affection!

What's Driving You?

While emotions enhance and embellish our interactions with God and each other, it's possible for emotions to become the driver of our responses, reactions, and even how we pray. 

For example, if the emotion of anger is allowed to become one's driver (no longer kept under personal control or more importantly, yielded completely under control of the Holy Spirit), rage and out-of-control behavior can likely result, bringing physical and/or emotional wounds to self or others around.  A person emotionally driven by anger won't likely pray, or if they do, their prayer will be anger-driven and likely judgmental and condemning toward whatever person or matter they're angry toward.  God sees, hears, and knows the anger-filled person's heart, and hears the person's prayer; but He'll answer that person and their prayer out of His divine wisdom (knowing all of the past, present, and future- all seen and known by Him in that moment).

Different emotions, if driving instead of embellishing us, can steer us to pray and behave differently, depending on the emotion.

Heart-Check

When we begin by asking God to help us pray beyond our emotions, we're not asking Him to cancel or negate our emotions as we pray.  What we're asking Him to do is help us balance the emotion(s) that's dominating or attempting to dominate us as we pray and seek God to intervene somewhere.  It's a request to help us see clearly; see the matter, circumstance, or person we're about to pray for through His eyes and understanding.  It's a spiritual and emotional heart check.  If we take time to allow God to align our hearts, minds, and emotions with His, we'll hear more clearly from Him about how He'd have us pray.  When we pray as He instructs (He instructs us in alignment with His Word and Spirit), we can be confident He'll answer our prayer(s) in the ways He's instructed us to pray.  It's also possible He may grow, strengthen, and deepen our faith in Him as a result!  That's a double-blessing (answered prayer and personal growth together)!

What if You're Prayerfully Stuck?

When faced with a shocking or stunning prayer request, and you can't seem to come up with words to pray, yield to the Holy Spirit to give you words or ideas/impressions about how He'd have you pray.  Although He personally intercedes for us, He will also give us His impressions as a way of guiding us how to pray and respond in the moment.  God invites our prayerful involvement in every moment of every day- and He'll help instruct us how to pray (especially when we feel inadequate or unable to pray- if we press into Him).

26 In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. 27 And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.

28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. 29 For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. 30 And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified. – Romans 8:26-30

Blog also found at:  http://www.prayonsite.org/blog/handling-significant-and-shocking-prayer-requests

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Should We Pray Aloud or Silently?

God, in His infinite wisdom, has given us many diverse ways to pray.  Some pray privately, some pray publicly, some pray while walking around, some pray in solemn stillness, while others pray in a variety of ways (some listed above, and in other ways not listed).
 

But does God have a preference whether we pray aloud or silently?

We look to Jesus- who not only taught about prayer, but modeled it for each of His followers.
 
In Matthew 4, we read that Jesus was led into the desert by the Holy Spirit to be tempted by the devil for 40 days.  While prayer isn't explicitly mentioned in this chapter, it's fair to reason that with the Holy Spirit leading Jesus into the desert, that prayer (communication with the Father) was ongoing.  The Holy Spirit helps us to pray- and certainly did/does the same for Jesus!  We have no record of anything Jesus prayed in the desert because Jesus either didn't share what He prayed at that time with his disciples, or the Holy Spirit didn't have it recorded in the gospels.

In Matthew 6, Jesus gives us a model to pray by: (verses 9-13)


This, then, is how you should pray:

“‘Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name,
 your kingdom come,
your will be done,
    on earth as it is in heaven.
 Give us today our daily bread.
 And forgive us our debts,
    as we also have forgiven our debtors.
 And lead us not into temptation,
    but deliver us from the evil one.

He doesn't specify if God prefers us to worship, confess, petition, and thank God aloud or silently.  He simply gives us this model to shape how we pray when we pray.

In Matthew 11:25-30, we read:
 
At that time Jesus said, “I praise you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and learned, and revealed them to little children.Yes, Father, for this is what you were pleased to do.

“All things have been committed to me by my Father. No one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and those to whom the Son chooses to reveal him.

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

In verses 25-26 we see the first word-for-word recorded prayer of Jesus in Matthew's account- and it reveals praise and worship-based prayer to the Father.  This aligns perfectly with the beginning of Jesus' model prayer in Matthew 6:9.  We also see Jesus instruct His followers (including you and me) to align ourselves (our hearts, minds, and souls) with Him by taking His yoke upon ourselves and learning from Him.  Prayer is one vital part of the yoke we should take upon ourselves- if we haven't already done so!  He promises that we'll find rest for our souls therein.

On the night between the feeding of the 5,000 and Jesus walking on water, we read in Matthew 14:22-23, "Immediately Jesus made the disciples get into the boat and go on ahead of him to the other side, while he dismissed the crowd. 23 After he had dismissed them, he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray. Later that night, he was there alone..,
 
Here, Jesus separates Himself from all others to be alone in prayer before the Father.  While there's no record of what He specifically prayed at that time, or whether he prayed aloud or silently (or maybe a combination of both), He gives us the model that it is good to separate ourselves from all others (people and things) to be still and alone before God.  There He found rest- and we can too.
 

He (the LORD) says, “Be still, and know that I am God;
    I will be exalted among the nations,
    I will be exalted in the earth.”
- Psalm 46:10

Then, prior to Jesus' betrayal in Gethsemane (Matthew 26), we read that Jesus prayed three times.  He strongly encouraged His disciples to watch, then watch and pray, but found them asleep each time He broke from concentrated prayer with the Father to check on them:
 
 
Then Jesus went with his disciples to a place called Gethsemane, and he said to them, “Sit here while I go over there and pray.” 37 He took Peter and the two sons of Zebedee along with him, and he began to be sorrowful and troubled. 38 Then he said to them, “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death. Stay here and keep watch with me.”

39 Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.”40 Then he returned to his disciples and found them sleeping. “Couldn’t you men keep watch with me for one hour?” he asked Peter. 41 “Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.”42 He went away a second time and prayed, “My Father, if it is not possible for this cup to be taken away unless I drink it, may your will be done.”43 When he came back, he again found them sleeping, because their eyes were heavy. 44 So he left them and went away once more and prayed the third time, saying the same thing.45 Then he returned to the disciples and said to them, “Are you still sleeping and resting? Look, the hour has come, and the Son of Man is delivered into the hands of sinners. 46 Rise! Let us go! Here comes my betrayer!”

From this passage, it appears Jesus prayed aloud (at least the portion he prayed three times).  Someone present must have recorded His words before they fell asleep, or the Holy Spirit later shared the words Jesus prayed with Matthew following Jesus' resurrection.

From these examples in Matthew, we see that God prefers prayer.  The method (spoken or silent), and physical location doesn't matter.  What matters is the heart of the one praying.  God desires to hear our prayers in whatever way we offer them to Him.

The other gospels also show modeling of prayer by Jesus.  John 17 also reveals Jesus' prayers for Himself, His disciples, and all believers.
 
Some additional thoughts on praying in different means.

Benefits of Praying Silently

Praying silently, for many, offers the ability to pray more quickly than by verbalizing prayer.  Our thoughts move faster than our voices, therefore, it's possible to share one's thoughts more quickly with God when praying silently than when speaking our prayer(s).
 
Praying silently often establishes an undisturbed atmosphere to hear the Holy Spirit when He speaks.  While the Spirit certainly can be heard during spoken prayer- through impressions He places on the praying person's heart- directly, from Scripture, or from others around, the atmosphere of silence may reduce noise or distraction for the one praying and may make it easier to hear the Lord's voice.
 
Benefits of Praying Aloud
 
When one prays aloud, especially in the presence of others, the person praying not only makes their thoughts known by verbalizing them, they also model prayer for others around them.
 
Modeling prayer is one of the key ways Christians learn how to pray from others.  Certain words used, inflections of voice, ways of praying, Scriptures prayed, and more may be picked up when one hears or sees another Christian praying.  Reminder:  The one modeling prayer should check his/her heart to make sure their motive in praying is to glorify God and not bring attention or glory to one's self.  The best kind of modeling happens without the person praying realizing that they're modeling prayer!  They let the Holy Spirit model prayer through themselves without interference of personal pride.
 
Of course, poor ways of modeling prayer may also happen when one prays aloud.  But if the person praying has his/her heart focused on the Lord, and is praying as the Holy Spirit is leading them (and not from their own desires alone) they're likely honoring and blessing the Lord.
 

Praying aloud can bring instant encouragement to others near the one praying aloud.  If someone requests prayer, often the best time to pray is at the very moment while the praying person is in the presence of the one requesting prayer.  Spoken prayer, in this situation, not only models prayer to the one requesting, but often brings instant hope, encouragement, or even joy, to the one burdened or requesting prayer.

How Should We Pray?

There's no choice to be made other than, we should pray!  How we do so depends on our heart position before God and how He leads or instructs us to pray in that moment.
 
We need not divide ourselves within our Christian fellowships or apart from them based on how we pray or prefer to pray.  There are benefits to each way we pray.  Prayer often works to shape the one praying more than the people or circumstances we pray for.  The most important thing we can do is pray.  So let's get back to doing so!

Lord, we love and praise you.  You've provided the way to directly come before the Father and speak with Him.  Thank you for prayer!  Continue to teach us to pray each day- and by your Spirit, lead us in how you'd have us pray moment-by-moment.  We desire to reflect your glory back to you and to others you place around us.  Help us to keep our eyes firmly fixed on you, the Author and Perfecter of our faith.  Have your way in and through us today- for your glory alone.
In Jesus' name, Amen.

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In most American worship and church services, God is worshiped by the singing of praise choruses, hymns, and other songs.  Sometimes, congregants are encouraged to pray silently while music quietly plays in the background.  While these are completely good and acceptable forms of worship, something seldom seen or modeled in American churches or around society is worship-based prayer.
 
Background
 

Around two years ago, I was introduced to worship-based prayer.  It was different than other ways I had learned to pray.  Throughout my life, prayer was mostly an ask-and-receive form of communication with God.  Prayer was a last-resort; something to do when all my creative and constructive efforts fell short.  Worship-based prayer moved prayer to the top of my priorities- it made prayer enjoyable, frequent, and it quickly deepened my personal relationship with God!

Worship-based prayer isn't the newest form of prayer, nor is it the only way to pray.  What it is though, is a form of prayer that deepens one's understanding, reverence, closeness, awe, and wonder of who God is.  It helps the person praying to push back against his/her flesh, the world, and our adversary- all of whom constantly try to diminish and eclipse God from our minds, hearts, eyes, and attention.  Worship-based prayer restores and/or expands a person's understanding of the fullness and completeness of God- in His attributes and beyond them!

God is Always Worthy to be Worshiped

One of the ruts that worship-based prayer pulled me out of was a mindset that God was to be worshiped on a Sunday morning, but then put away and seldom considered again until the following Sunday morning.  Until introduced to worship-based prayer, God's attribute of Provider was pretty much the only attribute of His that I considered or focused upon with any regularity.  Later, as my prayer life grew a little more, I'd ask God to work in my life with greater frequency, but largely, my prayers were still 98% request-oriented.

But there is no one else like God.  Consider what God said to Job in Job 38, 39, 40, 41, and 42 (please read these instead of quickly skipping past them).

God is matchless and is complete in power.  God is infinite in each of His attributes.  His creativity, sovereignty, holiness, love, grace, power, wisdom, justice, mercy, being all-knowing, being everywhere at all times- always, and more, are perpetually and perfectly infinite.  He alone is complete in every way- lacking in nothing!  Even typing these out has lifted my heart in worship to Him- hopefully the Holy Spirit is lifting your heart in worship as well!  But don't just take my word for it, search the Word- for it is authoritative and true!

God can and should be worshiped in all times and in all places.  Worship is not represented in a physical position or series of positions (as some religions and faiths attempt); it's the position of the heart before God.  It exalts God as Lord over all, Maker of all, and amongst everything He's created (He's perfectly personal).

Worship is not to only be done in one location.  While worshiping in a church building is good, we can worship God everywhere.  We can praise Him in our hearts while we shop for groceries, wash dishes, tidy the house, while we drive or ride from one place to another, and more.  We can praise Him while in a hospital bed, while we're in distress, while things are going well, and when things don't seem to be going as well as we'd like.

He doesn't change even though our hearts turn in different directions away from him at times.

Worship Defeats Worry

Worry is a familiar and common sin in America.  It's so common that little is thought about it.  It's accepted as something people routinely do.  Some even call themselves "professional worriers," as if it were some badge of honor! But few press into God to overcome worry.  Jesus spoke directly about worry in Matthew 6:25-34.  While the worries of that day consisted of where the next meal would come from, and other basic and essential needs, worry can worm into almost any situation or circumstance- if allowed.

When we worship God, He is seen and understood more fully as who He truly is.

“The word is near you; it is in your mouth and in your heart,” that is, the message concerning faith that we proclaim: If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved. As Scripture says, “Anyone who believes in him will never be put to shame.” - Romans 10:8-11

 
Worry puffs up problems, challenges, circumstances, dreams, or even desires, to become larger than they should be.  It can make the circumstance eclipse a person's view of the fullness of God; sometimes to the point where God doesn't seem as powerful, authoritative, perfect, present, good, compassionate, or any other of His perfect attributes.  Worry causes a person to question God and allows self and circumstances to dominate one's heart and/or mind instead of God.
 
Worship-based prayer helps put worry in its place.  It's not enough simply to know that worry is a sin and that one should not participate in it.  It must be eradicated entirely!  This is done by reading and praying worship-based Scriptures, praying for the Holy Spirit to illumine the Word as we read it, then help us take to heart what it says; praising and worshiping God for the truth of who He is contained therein!  Praying Scripture is also an excellent way to memorize Scripture!  When we memorize worship-based Scripture, we develop a growing reservoir of truth about God within our hearts and minds- a reservoir readily available to draw from, especially in difficult or challenging times!
 
When we see God rightly and accurately, everything else falls into its exact and appropriate place before Him.  It won't necessarily make our circumstances perfect, but it will help us to see God and our circumstances correctly- which is important.  When we see God and circumstances inaccurately and out of proportion, that's where trouble and confusion quickly begins.
 

Here's a Psalm that's useful in "tuning one's heart" to speak, meditate, and praise God for who He is.  Let's worship at His footstool! (v. 5)

The Lord reigns,
    let the nations tremble;
he sits enthroned between the cherubim,
    let the earth shake.
Great is the Lord in Zion;
    he is exalted over all the nations.
Let them praise your great and awesome name—
    he is holy.

The King is mighty, he loves justice—
    you have established equity;
in Jacob you have done
    what is just and right.
Exalt the Lord our God
    and worship at his footstool;
    he is holy.

Moses and Aaron were among his priests,
    Samuel was among those who called on his name;
they called on the Lord
    and he answered them.
He spoke to them from the pillar of cloud;
    they kept his statutes and the decrees he gave them.

Lord our God,
    you answered them;
you were to Israel a forgiving God,
    though you punished their misdeeds.
Exalt the Lord our God
    and worship at his holy mountain,
    for the Lord our God is holy.
  -Psalm 99

Carry worship of God with you wherever you go!  You'll bless God as you do so, and He'll bless you in seeing and knowing Him more completely and deeply than ever before.  Continue in worship now...

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God has given us gifts called time and prayer that coincide within our lives. Prayer is intended to be an ongoing conversation, personally and/or corporately, with God- at all times and in all places. Yet often, prayer is treated like it functions on a light switch; being turned on, then off, then on again as we have needs. Then off again when things seem under control and we can manage things going forward.

Solomon talks about the matter of time in Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, 14:

There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under the heavens:

2 a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
3 a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
4 a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
6 a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
7 a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
8 a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace.

14 I know that everything God does will endure forever; nothing can be added to it and nothing taken from it. God does it so that people will fear him.

What about time to pray? In verse 7, Solomon mentions there's time to be silent and a time to speak. So, does that mean we can shut off prayer? No it doesn't. Prayer (communicating with God) is intended to be an ongoing two-way conversation within our personal relationship with Him. That means we share with God what's on our hearts, AND we stop so we can listen to His reply. Listening to God will help us consider which season of time we're in- and/or how He'd have us respond within that given season! Listening to God also can inspire worship- something He's worthy of receiving at all times and in all places as well!

Paul, in encouraging all kinds of prayer, states the matter this way:

Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. Do not quench the Spirit. - 1 Thessalonians 5:16-19

Rejoice, pray, and give thanks- always, continually, and in all circumstances. All, means everything, or without exception. Continually, means without ceasing or stopping. Many Christians believe prayer is the most powerful and active gift God has given us. If that's true, why are we as Christians so quick to stop praying once we begin?

Prioritizing Prayer

“Our devotions are not measured by the clock, but time is of the essence. The ability to wait, and stay, and press belongs essentially to our intercourse with God.”  ― E.M. Bounds, Power Through Prayer

Often, like young children called to the dinner table while playing games with friends, we set our hearts on other things that can have an immediacy or importance in the moment, but are secondary to what matters most. Children don't see the bigger picture that parents do. Children quickly sit down and eat with hopes they'll return to their friends and continue the game, but often find their parents want to keep them at the table longer than they desire. There's friction, squabbling, and sometimes some tension as the children wrestle to get their way. But for their greater good, the parents keep them at the table until the meal, and conversation, is finished.

Often, when God calls us into a time of focused prayer (maintaining our ongoing prayer mindset of speaking and listening with Him, but pressing further into Him still), it may seem to come at an inconvenient time to us. We may be focused on our schedule, a task, some form of entertainment, or something else entirely. The matter we're involved in wrestles to take precedent over what/whom God is calling us to be in prayer for in the moment.

We immediately face some choices.

1. Will I immediately press into God in prayer about this, or will I make Him wait?

2. Will I neglect or pass on praying altogether in favor of what I'm doing currently?

3. If I press further into God about this, will I remain with and in Him until He declares it settled, or will I just give God a few seconds or minutes, then hurry back to what I am doing?

Prayer often changes us more than what/whom we pray for! How we answer these questions will determine how much we'll permit God to change us as we pray. It will also affect how we see God answer that burden He invited us to be in prayer for. Make no mistake, He will accomplish His will fully- whether we obediently pray in that moment or not! How much we're allowed to see and experience of that answer may directly relate to the decision we make and time we invest.

Is it any surprise that our adversary would do all he could to keep us from using the most powerful weapon God's given us in spiritual warfare? A bumper sticker was recently seen that read, "If Satan can't make you immoral, he'll make you busy."

Busyness is an adversary to prayer- and keeps many Christians from utilizing their most important and powerful weapon! Busyness also hinders many from growing in deeper relationship with God through prayer and the reading of Scripture. How busy are you? How much time with God are you losing each day because other priorities take precedent over communication and communion with Him?

Poor Modeling of Prayer

Whether we care to admit it or not; how we pray, or choose not to pray with or around others impacts how they think about prayer.

In 1 Thessalonians 5:19, Paul states, "Do not quench the Spirit." Quench means to sadden, disappoint, or grieve the Holy Spirit. The idea of quenching the Spirit should make us uncomfortable. Yet is it possible to do so when we pray?

Often, like children at the dinner table, eager to return to playing with friends, we can back away and dart off from the dinner table (times of prayer) without a second thought. The Holy Spirit might caution or encourage us to stay longer in worship or prayer, but He won't force us against our will. When we dart off before He's finished, we cut off our individual or corporate prayer times abruptly; quenching Him and placing something other than God in higher importance in that moment. We also miss out on greater worship, truth, or power He may intend to share if we'd stick around with Him until He's finished in that time.

As others around us see prayer, worship, and/or the Spirit quenched, it may give the impression to them that it's okay to do such a thing. If they see it happen repeatedly, soon it can turn into an expectation, something's that anticipated, a common practice, and even possibly a tradition.

What if the Holy Spirit has something deeper to share or do if we'd stay with Him a few minutes more? What if He's starting a work in someone's heart in the midst of the prayer group that suddenly risks screeching to a halt because someone sees time on the clock butting against the traditional ending time of the prayer/worship meeting? Can we truly afford to stop praying deeply until He's given the okay to do so?

In corporate prayer settings, tradition often seems to trump the Holy Spirit. We all lose when this happens.

"Take the mind that God has given you, and use it as an instrument of worship; for that's what it was created for." - Ravi Zacharias

The Remedy- Liberty

Breaking the binds of traditionalism or the tyranny of the urgent (busyness) may simply be accomplished by extending liberty to all in attendance (speaking mostly within the context of a corporate prayer gathering). Prior to the group pressing in to pray, a leader may announce the intent to follow the Holy Spirit until He's completed all He desires to do during that time of prayer. Those desiring to leave prior to that time have full liberty to leave whenever they desire (as quietly as possible).

This extends both an openness and willingness to follow the Spirit, as well as freedom to allow those who need to leave earlier the ability to do so. If the Spirit leads 2-3 within the group to pray deeply for 2-3 hours (or longer), nobody leaving earlier need feel guilty- especially if the Holy Spirit has released them at that earlier time.

Our times of personal and corporate prayer will see much greater fruits of the Spirit when we permit the Spirit to begin, and complete, all He desires to do each time we meet together in prayer!

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other. - Galatians 5:22-26

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Whose Time Is It Anyway?

In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. Now the earth was formless and empty, darkness was over the surface of the deep, and the Spirit of God was hovering over the waters.

And God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light. God saw that the light was good, and he separated the light from the darkness. God called the light “day,” and the darkness he called “night.” And there was evening, and there was morning—the first day.

14 And God said, “Let there be lights in the vault of the sky to separate the day from the night, and let them serve as signs to mark sacred times, and days and years, 15 and let them be lights in the vault of the sky to give light on the earth.” And it was so. 16 God made two great lights—the greater light to govern the day and the lesser light to govern the night. He also made the stars. 17 God set them in the vault of the sky to give light on the earth, 18 to govern the day and the night, and to separate light from darkness. And God saw that it was good. 19 And there was evening, and there was morning—the fourth day. - Genesis 1:1-5, 14-19


God created time to help bring order to our lives.  Day and night was established to mark sacred times, and days and years (v. 14).  Do you ever marvel at God's desire for order and structure instead of chaos?  Time brings order to our lives and exists to help us align our hearts, minds, tasks, and all things before God.


Time was Created for Man
God exists both within and outside of time- all at the same time.  This can be difficult to ponder.  For God to create time, He had to already be existing outside of time.  Once he created time, He was both within and outside of time- as God does not abandon His creation or works. 

As created beings made in the image of God (Genesis 1:26-27), God ordained that we live, work, and worship within a structure called, "time."  When God created time, He saw it was good (Gen. 1:19).  His whole work of creation was completed in 7 days.  Have you ever considered that days did not exist prior to creation?  Even the existence of days point us toward God and many of His perfect attributes!  What a perfectly wise God we serve and worship!


The Fall of Man

Those familiar with the creation account in the beginning of Genesis are aware that by chapter 3, Adam and Eve fell into sin.  Sin brought a curse that affected all of creation, including man and time (Gen. 3:17-19).  Since then, all of creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. (Romans 8:22) 


Taking a Good Thing too Far
Often in our fallen, sinful, world, time can seem to become a burdensome yoke or restrictive slave master.  This was not God's original design.  While time exists to help bring order to our lives, we can easily take orderliness too far- to a point where it can dominate our thoughts, actions, and attention.  When this happens, our relationship with God is the first to suffer.

Sin has warped how we see and utilize time in our daily lives.   It has caused activities, others-focused priorities, and self to usurp God's #1 place in our moment-to-moment lives.

Sadly, in our culture, doing things (whether to please God or self) often take priority over the abiding, deepening, relationship that God desires to have with us on a moment-by-moment basis.  When this happens, time can easily become an idol.  Activities on to-do lists are exalted before time with God, and our flesh becomes the driver of our lives instead of the Holy Spirit and the Word of God.  When this happens, and happens with increasing frequency, our awe and wonder of God, His power, perfections, and other attributes, are dimmed- often to a point where God may seem distant or even irrelevant.  Time, and the act of filling our time to accomplish things, replaces a deepening relationship with the Holy, Perfect, Sovereign, Mighty God of all.

When Attention to Time Overpowers the Holy Spirit
Have you ever been in a time of corporate prayer or worship (where two or more are gathered in prayer) that ended seemingly before the Holy Spirit had finished the work He was doing in that time?  Maybe somebody began repeatedly interjecting the word, "Amen" into the prayer meeting in hopes it would end so they could leave for their next activity.  Maybe the meeting was forced to end because the prayer leader had somewhere else they felt they or others needed to be at that time.  Or maybe the Holy Spirit was halted early in doing a ministering work because there was another church service to follow (and it was expected to begin on time).  Maybe a service was on the verge of becoming too long compared to how some attendees were conditioned to stay.  The Holy Spirit was chased away due to somebody's set time schedule.  Sadly, these kind of things happen more than we'd care to admit. 

The Holy Spirit does not often perfectly fit into our schedules, our set-aside times with Him, or the clock on the wall.  What if He desires to minister to or through you beyond, or outside, of your scheduled quiet time?  Will you let Him, or will you permit your other priorities to quench Him?


Some Pertinent Reminders:
God is sovereign (He can freely choose to do whatever He pleases whenever it pleases Him to do so). 


God is our King.  He engages us as He pleases.  Who are we to dictate to Him when He should meet with us?

God is not restricted by time.

His ways are above our ways!

He sees the past, present, and future all at the same time


He knows how He will resolve the meeting, service, or appointment that He'll make you late for- if you stay with Him until He's finished meeting with you.  He also knows how He'll glorify Himself to or through you if you'll let Him complete what He desires to do in that moment.  Will you trust Him to do so and permit Him to complete the deeper work in you He desires to do? 

He knows how He will adjust your circumstances (in ways only He can) so that you'll completely receive what He desires you to hear or experience when you're deeply in prayer, meditation, relationship, or worship with Him.  Will you stay with Him long enough to permit Him to do so?

God is a Perfect Gentleman.  Because He is, so is Jesus, and the Holy Spirit.  He will not force us to be in communion, meditation, or worship beyond whatever else or whom we prioritize before Him.  He allows us to choose others before Him- but at our own loss.

The Spirit always ministers in the present moment.  He can not be delayed, DVR'ed, or Tivoed (recorded, and then watched/listened to at a different time)! 

The Holy Spirit can be quenched
(doused, chased away, grieved).  Through disobedience, prioritization of others or other things before God, the Spirit can be quenched or grieved. 

We can miss much, if not all, of what the Spirit may desire to teach or do.  This can happen by boxing God into specified appointed times in our schedules.  If we're inflexible with aligning our schedules with God's, we miss out on God's best for us in that moment and afterward.

Liberty Within Prayer
During corporate prayer and worship (where two or more are together doing so), it could be made known to all in advance that all in attendance have liberty to come and go as they please.  This permits the Holy Spirit to continue His work within that time until He's finished with those He's ministering to or through- should they choose to wait for Him.

He extends liberty to us in each moment- to choose whether we'll invite or ask Him to fill, use us, or show us anything we're missing in that moment.  As a Perfect Gentleman, He always leaves the decision up to us.  That's liberty (for better or worse)!

When the Lord has completed showing, teaching, or doing what He desires, He'll release you to your next assignment, activity, etc.  He is trustworthy!

Keeping the First Thing the First Thing
Psalm 24:1 says, "The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it."

We belong to God.  We are created to be in constant relationship with Him.  He desires our attention, affection, worship, joy, meditation, lives, hearts, minds; all of us, always to be centered upon and within Him.  Time belongs to God.  The clock gives structure to our days and nights, but He should always rule over time- the time He's given us to live, serve, love, and worship.

Aligning ourselves with God will help us see Him more completely, and catch the greater depths of relationship He desires to have with us.  This is sometimes referred to as redeeming the time.

Let's redeem the time well and yield to the Holy Spirit in His timing!

Lord, you are my all-in-all.  Everything I have and am is Yours.  The time you've given me this day belongs solely to You.  Thank you for giving me this day and night ahead.  I desire to utilize the time you've given me in fellowship with You- even while I work, serve, and do all things as unto You.  Have Your way in me and through me.  Help me to realize things I hold on too tightly to, and grasp You more fully in my heart, mind, life, and soul.  Be glorified and magnified in this day.  Teach me Your ways and show me greater depths of Your heart for me and others.  You are the One I seek.  I worship You.  In Jesus' name, Amen.

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Making Every Day a Holiday (Holy Day)

As we near the annual holidays of Thanksgiving, the celebration and remembrance of the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ, and the celebration of New Year's, we enter a season where many of our routines are interrupted with different activities and interactions.  Family, celebrations, and travel, bring many people a respite from the routines established in daily/weekly life.

For many, holidays seem to accelerate our busyness- darting from home-to-home or place-to-place; sharing time with friends and family members not regularly seen.  For some, a return to the routine after the holidays may even seem like a relief!

But routine or no routine; how many of us as Christians make every day a holiday with God?

Every Day a Holy Day
The word, holiday, stems from the term, "holy day."  The word, holy, simply means "set apart" or "unique."  Therefore, a holy day is set apart from all other days.

While it's true that no two days are exactly alike (there may be similarities in routine, etc.); do we ever consider setting apart each and every day as a holy day (holiday) for/with God?

Redeeming the Time

Jesus said, "A student is not above his teacher, nor a servant above his master.  It is enough for the student to be like his teacher, and the servant like his master." - Matthew 10:24-25

Jesus kept in constant contact with the Father in prayer and thanksgiving (spoken and silent).  In doing so, he was able to do and be who the world needed to meet, see, and come to know!  He was holy; that is, set apart from the world- yet while in the world.

As followers of Jesus Christ, we're called to do and be the same- just like our Teacher; our Master!

We know that we have come to know him if we keep his commands. Whoever says, “I know him,” but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in that person. But if anyone obeys his word, love for God is truly made complete in them. This is how we know we are in him: Whoever claims to live in him must live as Jesus did. - 1 John 2:3-6

Read Mark 1:35 and Luke 5:15-16.  Jesus was busy, yet set aside time to pray privately.  He also constantly kept in communication with his Father in silent prayer as he served, ministered, taught, and more.

So, what could it look like to make each day a holy day?

All people- As you get up in the morning, praise God for who he is.  Share time with him.  Ask him to establish your steps (your plans, schedule, and more), and listen for his answer(s).  Throughout the day, continue asking him to revise your plans if he desires.  Obediently follow him if/as he does.  Ask him to help you realize opportunities to share your faith with others, then let him empower you (your words and actions) to do so.  Without realizing it, you've woven prayer and a closer ongoing connection with the Lord into and throughout your day.  The day has become more of a holy day!

Teachers- Begin as suggested above (All people).  Throughout the day, ask the Lord to provide you with his wisdom in instructing, correcting, teaching, and loving the children and/or students you teach and serve.  While correcting tests and homework, ask the Lord to bring you deeper insight into each child's life and thinking- so that you may more effectively pray for each one as the Spirit leads.  In doing so, the day has become more of a holy day for you- and for those you're in prayer for!

Businessmen- Begin as suggested above (All people).  Throughout the day, ask the Lord to speak to you truths about how he sees your dealings, service, networking, presentations, preparation, interactions with others, the spreadsheets you may review and revise, and more.  Invite Jesus to review and advise you in each decision, contact, presentation, and more throughout the day/night. Follow him as he guides you.  As you do, each day becomes more of a holy day- yielded and led by the Lord instead of man's earthly thoughts or wisdom.

Students- Begin as suggested above (All people).  Throughout the day, ask the Lord to instruct you in your relationships with other students or teachers.  Ask the Lord to sit with you and instruct you (help you learn what you're studying) as you read, prepare your reports or projects, and more.  Ask the Lord how he'd have you pray for others around you in class, between classes, or after school.  Obediently follow him and do what he instructs.  He's all-knowing and will always tell you the truth- with your best in mind as he sees and knows you personally.  As you seek and follow the Lord throughout each day, each day becomes holy and set apart for his glory- working in and through you.

Retirees- Begin as suggested above (All people).  The world would tell you that your best days have passed and that you should simply coast and surrender the latter days of your life until you pass away.  Nonsense!!!  Each day is a holy day where Jesus desires to minister to and through you!  Call or visit a friend or acquaintance (maybe someone you haven't spoken with in awhile).  Tell them what Jesus has been doing in your life recently.  Ask them if they've seen Jesus working in their lives.  Encourage them to read or listen to the Word of God (maybe suggest a Scripture passage to read/listen to).  Offer to pray for or with them in person, over the phone, via email, or another means.  Let the Holy Spirit instruct you as you pray.  The day becomes holy and set apart as you redeem the time in the Lord's strength and wisdom.  You'll also likely bring encouragement to that other person/people as you do (encouragement that might last far beyond that very day!).

There are very few limits in how we redeem the time and seek the Lord to help make each day holy.  Likely, the greatest limit we place on God is ourselves; how we choose to handle our time, plans, and activities- in our own way, strength, or knowledge. 

Let's redeem the time.  You can begin this very minute.  There's no need to procrastinate until tomorrow morning!

Finish this day by making it holy.  Then begin and practice making tomorrow a holy day... and the day after that... and the day after that...

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Train Up a Child- and Yourself

Recently, some friends celebrated the birth of their first child, a son.  While praying for the newborn, I felt impressed to ask the Lord for His thoughts on the birth.  The question/answer He gave me challenged my usual way of thinking.

"Have you considered that this newborn baby may likely become your peer-in-Christ one day?" 
Wow!  Fast-forward some short 12-25 years from now, and this newborn will become a peer of some type!  That's difficult to think about while looking at a newborn tightly snuggled in his blankets, but it's very true!

If that baby is prayed for, trained up in God's Word & ways, and the Holy Spirit turns his heart toward the Lord's in the form of a personal relationship with Him, this boy will become a spiritual peer of yours and mine.  Depending upon how worldly or Christ-focused he becomes will factor in to his maturation in Christ and to what degree he will likely serve Him and others.

Training Up a Child


Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. -Proverbs 22:6 (KJV)
There are many ways to teach, train, and model faith to children, but one thing I believe is absolutely necessary for a child's maturation is training a child to pray!

Herein lies some challenges.

Do you pray for your children, grandchildren, or the children of others?  How do you pray for them if/when you do?  Do you ever model prayer to them (so that they may see how they too can pray)?  How well have you been personally trained in order to train a child (future peer) in prayer? 

Shopping Out Responsibility

You know, the training of children and youth to seek, follow, relate to, and pursue God is not only for trained specialists.  It is each of our responsibilities.  In the proverb mentioned above, there's no mention of "Only take your child to a youth pastor, a specialized prayer warrior, a missions specialist, etc. to train him/her in the way they should go (or grow)."  While these type of Christian leaders should be helpful to go to for instruction, assistance, and guidance; the full responsibility and joy of helping a child to mature spiritually should not be shopped out only to Christian leaders.  That responsibility is upon each parent, grandparent, Christ-centered neighbor, and friend.  We're all involved in this together!

Each of us is called to train up children in the way they should go- whether or not you have a "heart" or passion to work with children inside or outside of a church setting.  They will very soon become our peers (Christian or non-Christian)!

What if I've Never Been Trained Myself?

In Matthew 10:24-25, Jesus said, "The student is not above the teacher, nor a servant above his master.  It is enough for students to be like their teachers, and servants like their masters..."

A child will not learn beyond what their teacher teaches them.
I've spoken with many adults who lament that their parents, grandparents, teachers, pastors, or spiritual leaders never taught them how to personally pray, or pray with confidence.  Most are not out to assess blame, but to state the need within their own hearts and lives.  How can one train another (especially a child) if they've never been trained or lack confidence themselves?

It's not too late.  All is not lost- for you, your children, grandchildren, or other future peers.

If you find yourself in a position where you feel you could benefit from training or growth in your prayer life, contact OnSite.  We desire to help you grow closer in relationship with God through reading and applying Scripture in your day-to-day life, worshiping and praying from the Word of God, praying with your spouse and/or children, and in other simple, practical ways.

Call, text, or email us today.  Our contact info is below.  Together, we can equip our current and future peers in prayer and develop deeper relationships with Jesus Christ as we do!  Give yourself, or someone else, the gift of prayer this Christmas and beyond!

Rob Griepentrog

Executive Director, OnSite International, Inc.

317.506.7278

www.prayonsite.org
robg@prayonsite.org

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Check Your Spiritual Heart Rate

We live in a day and age where many people exercise for health, appearance, and happiness.  Many who do so wear heart rate devices to monitor the speed of their heart rate as they run or work out.  If the rate is too high or low, they change pace to bring it into a safe or more comfortable range to prevent injury or worse.

 

But how do we check our spiritual heart rates?  Has someone developed a device that will do such a thing? 

If such a device exists, would we be scared to own something that shows us the rate our spiritual heart beats for God?  What if it showed a heart beating faster for something or someone other than God?  What would we do?

God has given us at least three such devices- and the good news (or bad news; if you fear having such accountability) is that we already have them.  There's no purchase to make!

Our first spiritual heart rate monitor is the Holy Spirit.  We who've already received Jesus Christ as personal Lord and Savior know the Holy Spirit dwells within us (Romans 8:5-17). He resides within to help us worship God throughout each day.  He points out sin areas in our hearts that must be addressed before He will work more fully and completely within and through us (Galatians 5:16-25).  He also helps align our hearts with His heart, God the Father's, and Jesus' heart- so that we can know what to do, and how to pray, moment-by-moment throughout each day.

Our second spiritual heart rate monitor is the Word of God (2 Timothy 3:16-17).  God has given us His Word to help quicken our spiritual heart rates toward Him, His creation, and others (all pointing our hearts back to worshiping God for who He is).  Without reading and applying God's Word into our lives each day, we quickly can become spiritual couch potatoes; unhealthy and out of shape to serve God or others.  Spiritual couch potatoes absorb God's glory and poorly reflect it back to Him.  They struggle or fail as fruitful witnesses to others who need to come into a personal relationship with God.  They can exhibit slow, or sometimes even hard-to-notice, heart rates toward God or others.

Healthy time and prayer in God's Word (and with the empowering of the Holy Spirit) quickens the heart for the Father, increases awe in who He is, and motivates the Christian to both watch for God working around them daily, and witness as He provides opportunities to do so.

 

Our third spiritual heart rate monitor comes in the form of other Spirit-filled, Word-grounded, Christians (Hebrews 10:24-25).  These Christians exhibit healthy beating hearts and lives as they pray, serve, and train (disciple) others around them.  They aren't actors, but are living fully in the joy, power, love, grace, and truth of God and His Word.  These Christians are eager to help others freshly taste and see that He is good- in every day and every way; making disciples of Jesus out of others around themselves.  Proverbs 27:17 also sums it up well.  "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." 

Heart Check Time

Have you checked your spiritual heart rate monitors recently/today?  Are you willing to believe what they say?


What are your spiritual heart monitors saying?  Is your heart beating quickly in God's presence (worshiping, praising, and thanking Him for who He is and for specific things you see Him doing in and around you)?

Is your heart rate slow; maybe barely beating?  Does it seem like a lot of time has passed since you've dwelt in His presence; worshiping, watching, or quietly listening for His voice as you worship Him in your heart?

God desires that our hearts beat quickly and only for Him.  He is a jealous God (Deuteronomy 4:23-24).  Our hearts quicken as we seek Him, worship, and allow our hearts to be filled with awe and wonder of who He is (by His Word, Spirit, and the witness of other Christ-centered people).

Take some time right now to ask the Holy Spirit to search your heart and assess your heart rate (Psalm 139:23-24).  If it's not where He'd (or you'd) like it to be, don't beat yourself up or become frustrated.  Instead, confess whatever needs to be confessed to God.  Realign your heart with His as He instructs, and allow Him to fill you with His joy, presence, fullness, and more that will quicken your heart rate for Him and reflect his glory outward to others as well.  As you do, others will begin to see more and more of Jesus within you!

Continue checking your spiritual heart rate throughout each day.  It's a vital way to live a healthy and Christ-honoring life moment-by-moment!

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A Christian leader asked members of his congregation, "How have you recently seen God answer your prayers?"
 
Congregants suddenly sat frozen in their seats, some with eyes wide open, struggling to think of answers.
 
Finally, one brave man raised his hand and said, "God led my sister to faith."
 
Encouraged by the man's answer, the leader asked a follow-up question so as to bolster his, and others', faith.  "When did He answer that prayer, earlier this week?
 
"Oh, it was back around 1993 that He did that."


There are a handful of questions, when asked of Christians in large or small group settings, that can spur silence.  "How have you seen God answer your prayers this week?" is often one of them.

Why is this such a difficult question to answer? 

There are many obstructions in our day and age that hinder our ability to see God working all around us each day.

The busyness of the typical American keeps one's nose to the grindstone and eyes narrowly focused on self, or the matter at hand; making it difficult to see God working in the great or small.

Over-focusing on things that entertain also can distract the Christian from being watchful for God working in or around them.

One solution:  By being continually connected with God in prayer (1 Thessalonians 5:17), we become attentive in watching and listening for God's instructions on how to pray, plus we grow in sensitivity to see Him answer our prayers!

There are hundreds, maybe thousands, of books that tell about how to pray, why prayer is important, and more.  The Bible is the most important of these!  Have you noticed that the Bible also serves as a record of answered prayers?

Many of David's answered prayers were recorded in the Psalms.  Favor in battle (daily struggles and adversity), rejoicing in the closeness of fellowship and deepening relationship he had with God, confession of sins, instruction the Lord faithfully gave him, and more.  Psalm 34 is one of many examples.

I agree with Paris Reidhead in his book, Beyond Petition: Six Steps to Successful Praying, when he said, "I believe that you and I ought to be writing books on answered prayer."

So, what would happen if we began to keep a running list of answered prayers?
 
1.  Our faith, trust, and relationship with Him would deepen and grow.

 
2.  It would serve as an added motivation to continually go, and be before, God with all kinds of prayer (affirmation, confession, thanksgiving, praise, wisdom, and faith)- knowing that He has more that He wants us to learn, know, see, experience in Himself and His creation!

3.  If we find ourselves in a dry season of faith, the record of answered prayers would be readily available to help remind us of God's faithfulness, trustworthiness, love, grace, closeness, and more.

4.  We wouldn't be caught without an answer the next time someone asked how God answered our prayers this week.

 

If you're not already doing so, set aside a notebook or open and save a document on your computer to record answered prayers of all kinds.  You might begin by recording some answered prayers you've seen in your lifetime (they can even be from as far back as 1993 or earlier!) or more recently.  You may also desire to type up a list of prayers you're seeking answers for.  Then, as He answers, you can move them to the "answered" column! 

Let's continue to seek God in all things and in every place we go.  Let's watch Him working, then record what we see Him doing- as a testament to His work in our lives, others' lives, and to generations to come as well!

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Being a Useful Conduit for the Lord

Conduits are useful and necessary things in our day-to-day lives.  They transfer liquids, air, and other things from a source to a destination.  Conduits can take the form of pipes, hoses, chimneys, jars, pitchers; even veins in a bloodstream.  But have you recently considered that you are a conduit for our Lord?
 
Therefore, since through God’s mercy we have this ministry, we do not lose heart. For what we preach is not ourselves, but Jesus Christ as Lord, and ourselves as your servants for Jesus’ sake. For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,”[a] made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of God’s glory displayed in the face of Christ.

But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us.

16 Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. 17 For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. 18 So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. -2 Corinthians 4:5-7, 16-18


When we consider what fixed conduits do (like a water pipe or air duct), we notice that they are created and then put into use.  The manufacturer forms and shapes the conduit.  The builder sets and seals it in place and tests his work to see that it is good (not leaking; that it's positioned correctly, etc.).  If all is well, the conduit is put into use to carry whatever it is intended to carry.  It performs its purpose.


Like fixed conduits, flexible conduits are also created and then put into use.  Flexible conduits, like hoses, are transportable, may be rolled up, and are useful in a variety of places or circumstances. 


A conduit does not have the authority to select when, where, or how it will be used
.  Those decisions are up to the installer or worker who utilizes the conduit.  The conduit only exists to fulfill its purpose- to transfer something from its source to its intended destination.


When a conduit becomes restricted or clogged, work must be done to reopen the passage way.  If a restricted conduit is neglected, it loses its ability to achieve its purpose fully, and often times may become useless or even harmful!  We see this commonly with heart valves, kinked water hoses, or chimneys.
 
We are flexible conduits for our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.  He is our Source and what He sends through us is powerful and life-changing!  As conduits, we're not the source of what passes through us spiritually.  Only He is.  He positions us in different locations and around many different people.  We transfer His Word, words, thoughts, material goods, and everything He gives us to His intended destination for them.  That can take the form of worshiping the Father, speaking a timely word to somebody, praying with someone in person, meeting a physical need, or many other ways.  A working conduit is obedient to do and be what it's intended to be.
 

However, unlike inanimate conduits, Jesus gives us, and lets us control, a valve called free will.  Free will gives us the ability to control how much or little of His Spirit flows within and through us at any given moment.  We can hold the valve open by being watchful and in constant communication and worship with Him.  We also can close the valve or become clogged by taking our hearts, minds, and eyes off of Him and become fixated on earthly things (news, entertainment, self-gratifying objectives, and more).


As we walk more and more closely with Him (spending quality quiet time reading and meditating on the Word, and worshiping Him in prayer of all kinds), we find it becomes uncomfortable to manipulate that valve away from being fully open all of the time.  Then, as we cultivate an ongoing heart of worship, prayer, listening, and obedience, we begin to more easily see God's activity all around us! 


It's good to always check the position of the valve
!  Is there anything clogging you as a conduit for the Lord?  Is He able to speak or do anything through you He desires this moment?  What plans do you have for later today?  If He desires to move and use you differently than what you've planned, are you willing to postpone or change your plans to accomplish His will in your life or in others as He chooses?

 

Lord, I take credit for nothing of my own.  You first loved me, and by doing so, you drew me to yourself.  As your child, I desire to glorify you as you glorify your Father in all things.  Thank you for choosing and installing me as a conduit to fulfill your Great Commission and more!  Continue to shape, direct, and fill me by your Word and Holy Spirit.  Like you, I desire many more to come to saving faith in you alone.  Use, move, shape, and direct me the way(s) you desire.  You are my Source.  I am your vessel.  Be magnified in me this day and in each to come.  In Jesus' name, Amen.

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Stop Filibustering God

Guard your steps when you go to the house of God.  Go near to listen rather than to offer the sacrifice of fools, who do not know what they do wrong.  Do not be quick with your mouth, do not be hasty in your heart to utter anything before God.  God is in heaven and you are on earth, so let your words be few...therefore stand in awe of God. - Ecclesiastes 5:1-2,7b

God desires to hear his children pray.  He made us, formed us (Psalm 139), and placed love in our hearts for Himself and for others.  Thus, it's good to pray and express our hearts to God in worship and petition.
 

But how should we bring our petitions to God?  Should we back up and dump our dump truck's worth of concerns on Him and then move on with our lives?  Should we badger or filibuster God to get our way (plead God's ear off to do something our way because we think we know the best possible outcome if we do)?  Or is there a better, more God-honoring way?

Paris Reidhead, a 20th Century pastor, wrote a little book titled, "Beyond Petition: Six Steps to Successful Praying."  In it, he outlines a pattern for praying that I believe presents a well-balanced way to approach God in prayer- anytime and anywhere!
 
Prayer of Affirmation
Prayer of Confession
Prayer of Thanksgiving
Prayer of Praise
Prayer of Wisdom
Prayer of Faith

It goes beyond the common A.C.T.S. (adoration, confession, thanksgiving, and supplication/requests) format to include:
 
Affirmation: confirming that God loved you even while He knew the worst about you.  He first loved you.  Nothing you've done has earned his love.  He loved you first and He loved you to Himself.  That's why you love Him and follow Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior.  David and Solomon prayed prayers of affirmation, and so can you as you pray.
 
Wisdom:  This is a prayer that's a request to God; asking Him how you should pray.  Prayers of affirmation, confession, thanksgiving, and praise (listed above) have not asked God for anything.  They establish and grow awe and wonder of God in our hearts and minds (and are important as we pray). 
 
The prayer of wisdom is the first request offered in this format of prayer.  It serves to seek God's heart and thoughts on a matter or concern before we launch into pleading for God to do something we'd like Him to do for us.  It requires first asking Him of His opinion, and then listening, waiting, and being still (remember Psalm 46:10?) to hear His answer(s).  It may also require you to invite others to join you in praying for God's will to be discerned in the matter (this is different than asking somebody to join you in praying for a specific outcome you desire prior to first hearing from the Lord. To pray in that manner would be to potentially invite others to partner with you in badgering God for your will to be done!).  There's a difference between the two, so consider how you plan to ask a praying friend to pray prior to asking them to pray in a specific way!
 
Once God confirms His will in the matter (directly to you and/or though what He's told praying friends who have faithfully sought the Lord's answer with you), you can pray and earnestly seek Him for the specific result He's revealed to you- and He will do it!  He's faithful, and His promises are true!
 
To see God's best possible outcome should be our desire in each and every petition or concern that we bring to God.  Yet, how easy it is for us to think through potential outcomes, come up with one we sincerely desire, then request or demand of God that He do it that way!  I've found that as I yield to God first, ask Him to show me how to pray in a matter, listen for His voice, then pray accordingly to what He desires, that He does immeasurably more than I previously thought or imagined possible (Ephesians 3:20)!
 
Some might say, "But it takes time to wait, to listen for God's voice, and be still before Him!  I don't have that kind of time.  I need the answer or result right now!"
 
You can have a Burger King (have it your way) result, or you can practice Psalm 46:10 and discover God's much greater result and answer to your prayer- as you align your heart, mind, and soul with Him, and then pray His way in the matter.

As we practice this way of praying; our relationship, trust, faith, dependency, joy, patience, awe, and wonder in the Lord grows!  Those are an incredible number of outcomes that happen when we seek God first, let our words be few (let His words become ours instead of only speaking ours), and be still and in awe of Him!
 
May the filibustering of God cease! 
 
Final thoughts:
* A personal relationship is a two-way conversation, not just a one-way dominating speech.

* God's spelling of the word, intimacy = In to Me see.

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The Holy Spirit Cannot Be Tivoed

We live in busy times.  God, family, work, obligations, sporting events, TV programs, webinars, deadlines, and more, tug at us; competing for our attention and striving to obtain #1 status in our hearts, minds, and lives.  While there's a sense of goodness, maybe even comfort, in knowing that one is in demand; at what cost does busyness take?

A friend recently shared an acronym relating to the word, busy...

Burdened
Under
Satan's
Yoke

Most, if not all, things that busy us are good things in and of themselves.  Yet busyness is a key tool our enemy uses to separate us from God- especially if the activity can take our mind or heart's attention away from God's ever-presence or nearness in our lives.  One might call it the plague of distraction.

I hear many people talk about Tivo-ing their favorite TV programs to watch at a later time.  While this is a handy tool for the TV/entertainment medium, let me remind you that God, and His Spirit, can not be Tivoed. 

Seek the LORD while he may be found; call on him while he is near.  Let the wicked forsake their ways and the unrighteous their thoughts. Let them turn to the LORD, and he will have mercy on them, and to our God, for he will freely pardon.  “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the LORD.  “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts. - Isaiah 55:6-9

I don't know if you've considered this, but God frequently tests us- and often at times that may seem inopportune. 
Have you felt the Holy Spirit tug your heart to stop what you're doing and pray with somebody at a specific moment?  Has God ever quickened your heart to stop what you're doing and listen to His voice for a few moments?  Maybe He's prompted you to take a different route on the way to a destination you're traveling to?  Did you obey in the moment, or did you attempt to Tivo Him (put Him off until a more convenient time)?

If we're honest with ourselves, we've all Tivoed God (placed our endeavors, schedules, concerns, plans, etc.) ahead of God's in a specific moment in time.  It happened to me a number of times this past week. 

It's not pleasant to realize when one's put God off for their own selfish desires, schedule, or busyness.  Often, what God planned to do or share in that moment is lost.  Other times, He may offer a window of grace for us to repent and immediately follow Him in His prompting.  God is working to conform us to the image of Jesus Christ- so sometimes the lesson is best learned through us realizing our error, but also losing the blessing we may have received as a result of our delayed obedience.  Tough lesson!


For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. - Ephesians 2:10

It's humbling to realize that God, in His infinite wisdom, joy, and grace, has established Divine appointments, times of personal meeting with Him, and other specific "works" for us to do at specific times; long, long, ago.  In seeking Him and being in His presence (even while accomplishing the duties of life), we'll begin to realize these things He's prepared for us within each day He gives us.  First we watch.  Then we realize His promptings.  Then we humbly obey in the moment.  We let God lead, direct our times, and receive the glory (He might even bless us in a special way through our obedience- although being in His presence and hearing His voice is blessing enough, in my opinion!).
Prayer

Lord, today I seek your face to worship You, thank you, and honor you.  Show me any thing or way within me that obstructs your Spirit from filling me fully.  I desire to place You and your ways before mine.  Align my thoughts, schedule, plans, and desires with yours today- and help me to pray, meet you, and others at the exact times you've set aside.  You are faithful and will give me the words, thoughts, and actions in those moments as I humble myself before You.  I'm sorry for selfishly Tivo-ing you and your Spirit's promptings.  I desire to better hear your voice and respond to Your Spirit's quickening of my heart, mind, and life.  It's You I long to glorify.  Not myself or my ways any longer.  You are my Lord, King, Shepherd, and Savior.  Thank you for first loving me and drawing me to Yourself through faith.  Help me to hear and seek you every moment of this day.  You, alone are my Lord, Jesus Christ.  Amen.

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