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WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE?

A young doctor once told me about attending a symposium of Christian physicians. He said they raised the question, “What is the difference between a Christian doctor and a doctor who is not a believer?” Their conclusion was simply that a Christian doctor prays for his patients.

I can think of a number of spiritual gifts and spiritual fruit that God might use through a Christian physician. And I suspect some doctors who are not necessarily committed Christians pray at least occasionally for their patients. Still, I suspect they touched the heart of the matter simply out of years of practicing medicine.

Thinking of this made me wonder about the difference between a Christian writer and one who does not believe. I do not want to minimize Christian subject matter. But I think there are differences beyond what we write about. There will be some difference between a Christian journalist and one who does not know the Lord. What about a travel writer? What about a restaurant critic? I believe two differences are foundational; whom we trust and whom we please and honor.

Two ferry boats cross a river. One runs along a cable stretched across the water. The other does not. When the river runs smoothly, the operator of the one without the cable claims his fairy moves faster. And that may be true, although I'm am not sure. But when the river is raging the one without the cable will be swept away in the flood.

A writer who knows Christ has an anchor of meaning and confidence in the sovereignty of God that a writer who does not know the Lord does not have. That is not to say that she is not bewildered by evil or unfairness. A Christian writer may write about evil or tragedy that she has no answer for. But beneath everything she has a confidence that that there is an answer and God knows the solution even when we do not. A Christian writer may suffer from writer's block. But she knows that she can pray for inspiration.

Most of you are far too young to remember the television series The Millionaire. In it Michael Anthony, played by actor Marvin Miller, was “the confidential secretary to the trillionaire John Beresford Tipton.”  Each week on the show at the philanthropist’s Direction he gave a million dollars to an unsuspecting recipient. While Michael Anthony gave wonderful things, a million dollars, a much greater fortune in 1955 than it is now, he did not work for them. He worked for the eccentric trillionaire. He obeyed his direction. The checks were drawn from the wealthy man’s bank account. And the secretary had to please him and him alone.

A Christian writer ultimately writes to please God. God is the source of her insight. He is the one who calls her to write. I am not primarily focusing on how a Christian ought to write. Although we seldom get all of this together, these are fundamental principles of belonging to Christ. A Christian writer seeks to speak from God and for God. She seeks to honor God rather than herself. And in this motive the truth of what she has to say is anchored.

In John 7:18 Jesus said,

“He who speaks on his own does so to gain honor for himself, but he who works for the honor of the one who sent him is a man of truth; there is nothing false about him.”

Who are you writing for?

 

 

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HIMSELF
     by A. B. Simpson
Once it was the blessing, Now it is the Lord;
Once it was the feeling, Now it is His Word.
Once His gifts I wanted, Now the Giver own;
Once I sought for healing, Now Himself alone.

Once 'twas painful trying, Now 'tis perfect trust;
Once a half salvation, Now the uttermost.
Once 'twas ceaseless holding, Now He holds me fast;
Once 'twas constant drifting, Now my anchor's cast.

Once 'twas busy planning, Now 'tis trustful prayer;
Once 'twas anxious caring, Now He has the care.
Once 'twas what I wanted, Now what Jesus says;
Once 'twas constant asking, Now 'tis ceaseless praise.

Once it was my working, His it hence shall be;
Once I tried to use Him, Now He uses me.
Once the power I wanted, Now the Mighty One;
Once for self I labored, Now for Him alone.

Once I hoped in Jesus, Now I know He's mine;
Once my lamps were dying, Now they brightly shine.
Once for death I waited, Now His coming hail;
And my hopes are anchored, Safe within the vail.


As Simpson describes; prayer can be transformative to the life of each Christian. We often can begin praying with a specific motive, but end up refocused in relationship with Jesus, and finish praying with an entirely different motive, desire, or outcome.  He is that good to us and desires to meet us with that depth of intimacy!

Yet prayer, for many, is an afterthought in daily life.  Few consider praying until hardship strikes, or a circumstance gets out of their control.  It's only then that prayer becomes applicable or important in their lives.


Many are so lacking in practice that they struggle knowing how to pray, what to say, or how to approach God.  Some are unaware of the many examples of prayer in Scripture- or that Scripture can help us focus on God (more than ourselves or circumstances) as we pray.

In our American church culture, prayer is largely a spectator event.  Many churches treat prayer almost as an add-on in the service (a tradition that must be honored- at least for 1-3 minutes of a busy, tightly-packed, hour-long service/program/event), or at best, a specialized thing that only those who are "gifted in prayer" (there's no such thing as the spiritual gift of prayer) do in a small, separated room set apart from the rest of the hustling and bustling people in attendance.  A pastor or elder may "say or offer a prayer" in front of the congregation, but seldom, if ever, are the church attendees invited to pray or practice prayer with or for one another.  Is it any wonder that American Christianity is considered by many outside of the Church to be a toothless, weak, religion- and something that is just like every other religion or cult belief system in the world today?  Have you seen a "Coexist" bumper sticker, with symbols of many popular religions (including the use of the cross as the T in the word) on a car recently?  When you see that on a car, it essentially means, "Christianity is no different, more powerful, or life changing than any other belief system."  What a lie and misconception!

God's Gift of Prayer- Our Difference Maker

It's no question that many people, following other belief systems/faiths, pray to the gods of their imaginations.  By deception, the dark forces (demons) playing the role of god(s), will sometimes, or often, "answer" the prayers offered in the manner the person asks. They do this in order to further deepen the deception the misled praying person has opened him/herself up to receive.  The person will feel further empowered in their belief system and thus, their god(s) become real, meaningful, and powerful to them (or they, themselves, may feel powerful).  Yet, it's all a lie; they're praying to a lie and liar- Satan.

But Christian prayer is vastly different than prayer of any other religion or cult.  The difference comes from the People receiving and stirring the prayer within us- Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit (in case you're not aware; the Holy Spirit is a Person, not a thing; one of the Trinity- Father, Son, and Holy Spirit)!  Jesus is the only Person who died to take the sins of everyone upon Himself; to set each person free from sin and eternal separation from God; and to lead them into a personal, intimate, relationship with Himself, the Father, and through the working of the Holy Spirit.  It's by faith in Jesus; His work of living a perfect, sinless life; His death and taking the sins of all upon Himself; His resurrection from the dead; ascension into Heaven; and His upcoming return to establish His eternal kingdom, that we are saved.  No other god or belief system can bring us into a personal relationship with the Savior of our souls!  Only Jesus was given power (by God the Father) to rise from the dead, take away our sins which separate us from the Father, and establish us into a personal relationship with our Creator, Redeemer, Lord, and Savior.

But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. - Ephesians 2:4-10

The Holy Spirit's Work

Since creation, the Holy Spirit has been actively wooing the hearts of men, women, and children, to seek and know God (and Jesus Christ, His Son)- often through prayer.  Whether people realize it or not; each day, they are given opportunities to realize God is in their midst (in truth, He's always present no matter where they are and no matter what they're doing- good or bad) and that He wants a close, ongoing relationship with them.  But those separated from God by their sin and sinful lifestyles miss His presence.  They're blinded by their sin, the world's ways, and our adversary, the devil.  The Holy Spirit is constantly working to bring conviction of sin to the heart, mind, and attention of the sinner (as a means to help them realize their need to turn toward God and away from sin, called repentance).  He does this in many ways- drawing the hearts of each person in ways that personally connect with their history, motives, desires, background, prior emotional, spiritual, or physical wounds, and much more.  He's the one working to soften hearts that have been hardened by sin, the world, and the devil.  The Holy Spirit is actively working out God's love- and is a constant reminder that God has not given up on a single living soul on this planet!

Yet, many have no idea that they're being pursued by God.  Some may, but reject God for one reason or another.  Others are confused by the "white noise" of all the religions bantering about to add to their numbers and practitioners- and thus many discard God as they give up altogether in their confusion.

Is the Holy Spirit too weak to turn the heart of every person to faith in Jesus Christ?  No.  He could; but God has given each person a will.  They can control it, make decisions, and choose to do whatever they please.  The Holy Spirit won't force Himself, or Jesus Christ, upon anyone who refuses Him.  He yields to their preferences and choices.  Ultimately, they choose whether they'll humble themselves or harden their hearts toward God.  The Holy Spirit patiently works and waits- even until the person's last breath of life on earth.  But if at that time they continue to reject Him, their eternity will be spent in Hell; permanently separated from God- just the way they ultimately chose or wanted it. 

As Christ-followers, we can quickly forget that we were once in that position ourselves. 

As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient. All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath. - Ephesians 2:1-3 (emphasis added)

What Do You Pray About Most?

What consumes most of your focus when you pray? 

A church surveyed members of its prayer team asking what kinds of things they regularly prayed for.  Out of every 10 prayer requests or matters prayed for, 8 focused on personal events or requests (for things WE are doing, events WE are involved in, stuff WE are dealing with, etc).  While no matter is too small or inconsequential to take to the Lord in prayer, if we look at this ratio, that means less than 2 out of 10 prayers are focused on praying for specific people to come to faith in Jesus Christ; for missionaries that God has sent and/or is using to spread the gospel to others; for personal or corporate revival in the Church; worship of God Himself, etc.  Our prayers tend to be or become very self-centered if we're not watchful!


Praying for the Spiritually Blind to See

To help us focus outward, in alignment with the Spirit's work, and the salvation of others, we can begin doing these following things:

1. 
Pray.  Ask God to bring to your mind 5-10 people who you know are without a personal relationship with Jesus, or who you're not sure if they have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.

2.
  Write.  Write those names somewhere where they'll regularly remind you to pray.

3.  Pray.  Pray scripturally for each person by name- including their name within the Scripture as you pray.
*Examples:

I pray that the eyes of ________'s heart would be enlightened, so that he/she would know the hope that can be found in Jesus (Ephesians 1:18).

Remove the heart of stone from _________, and give him/her a new heart of flesh (Ezekiel 11:19).
Father, produce a godly sorrow in _________, which will bring about repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regrets (2 Corinthians 7:10).

Holy Spirit, guide _________ to the understanding that the wages of sin is death, but eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord is a free gift (Romans 6:23).

I pray that the gospel would be presented to _________, not only with words, but also with power and with the Holy Spirit and deep conviction (1 Thessalonians 1:5).

There are many other Scriptures you can pray as you search the Word.  I encourage you to do so!

As we pray for others, their lives and circumstances will change, and we'll also begin to fulfill Jesus' command in Matthew 6:20-21 But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal.  For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.


Prayer is a gift God has given us to bring us into deeper relationship with Himself, and also to bring others into relationship with Him as well.  As we pray, our lives are changed- as are the lives of those we pray for.

One Request

If you begin praying specifically for someone using the Scriptures listed above, or other Scriptures the Lord leads you to pray, would you write to me about how God changes you, and/or a person you pray for as you've prayed?  Stories of God changing lives (both within Christians and non-Christians) need to be told as encouragement to others.  Share these stories with others you know- as a testimony of Jesus' work in your life and in the lives of others!

Lord, continue to teach us to pray.


Amen.

* Scripture examples borrowed from Paths of Gold; Praying the Way to Christ for Lost Friends and Family, by Terry Gooding.

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In our day and age, many people express words of encouragement to others by saying, "I'm thinking of you today," or "My thoughts and prayers are with you."  Statements like these express care and concern and are meaningful to many who receive them.  Kind thoughts and words can momentarily bolster someone who's experienced a loss; is struggling with loneliness, or may be struggling in one way or another. 

While expressions of encouragement are useful, there's a difference between thoughts and prayers.  What are they?

Wishful Thinking vs. Difference-Making Prayer
"I hope you feel better soon." 

"I wish there was something I could do." 

"I'm thinking of you.  Sending good thoughts your way."

These, and other similar expressions, express heartfelt concern and care.  While they may be encouraging and express care, how far do they go?  On what is the hope, wish, or thought based?
While it's good to express care and concern, it's also good to be careful not to make caring and concern about self.  Phrases like, "I'm sending good thoughts your way" can stem from a puffed-up view of one's self- as though that person is a/the source of good things, thoughts, or activities.  It may also be that the person saying this presumes to know that they're stronger or in a better position than the one they're expressing concern for.  Regardless, that statement can come off as self-centered or as at least self-glorifying.

For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out. - Romans 7:18

We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves.  Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up.  For even Christ did not please himself but, as it is written: “The insults of those who insult you have fallen on me.”  For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide we might have hope.

May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.


Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God. - Romans 15:1-7

One way to build up our neighbor (friends, family, others around us) is to pray.  Praying for someone else sets them ahead of ourselves.  God brings encouragement to the person praying, as well as the person receiving prayer, as we seek Him to accomplish His will in that person's life.


This passage also points toward the Scriptures as the source of endurance, encouragement, and hope.  In Scripture we, and others we pray for, find hope.  It's a good reminder to search the Scriptures for appropriate verses and passages to pray for/with those we pray for!

Prayer is much different than merely thinking.  Going to the Creator, Author and Perfecter of our faith; the All-Knowing, Ever-present, Loving, Gracious, Merciful, Just, Righteous, Wise, All-Powerful God in prayer is where significant differences are made!  Prayer goes beyond simple wishful thinking and whimsical hope.  When we pray, we carry the concern, problem, or matter directly to the One who can alter circumstances and outcomes.  He fully knows all the circumstances and lives surrounding the person or matter in question- but He's also waiting on His children to invite Him to act!  He is a Perfect Gentleman- and will not intrude, even if He desires to do so.  He wants His children to prayerfully engage Him first!


Caution Against Presumptive Praying
Most people are curious and caring people.  When praying for someone in stress or distress, it's often tempting to imagine or guess what the person is thinking or going through right at that moment.  Based on that guess or assumption, one may feel led to pray based on that imagination.  But can we be sure that our assumption or imagination is accurate or how God would have us pray?

A Better Way to First Pray Instead of Presuming

A very simply way to unclutter one's heart from taking on thoughts that might lead to praying presumptively is to simply pray something like, "Lord, I give my mind and heart to You.  Align them with Yours.  Please instruct me how You'd have me pray for ___________ at this time." 

Then be still and listen for His prompting on how to pray. 

God, who is all-knowing, knows exactly where the person is physically, emotionally, and spiritually.  He also knows perfectly what He desires to do in or around that person's life (emotionally and spiritually, too)!  As praying people, we desire to see our prayers answered and God glorified as He answers.  An excellent way to do so is to ask God how He'd have us pray (seeking His will to be done, instead of our own). 

Real Hope

The Lord sustains the humble
    but casts the wicked to the ground.

His pleasure is not in the strength of the horse,
    nor his delight in the legs of the warrior;
the Lord delights in those who fear him,
    who put their hope in his unfailing love.

- Psalm 147:6,10-11

Praying people humble themselves before God.  The promise above mentions that God sustains the humble.  Praying people, while humbling themselves, are also expressing fear of the Lord (defined as awe, wonder, yielding to His majesty, power, and perfection).  The Lord delights in them; those who put their hope in his unfailing love (verse 11).  Here, hope is placed in the Lord, our Difference-Maker; not in self, or in some wishful ethereal place, thought, or desire.

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. - Romans 15:13
God is our source of hope, joy, and peace as we trust in Him.  Hoping or searching for joy, peace, and other things from other sources will always fall flat in comparison.  The power of God, through the Holy Spirit, provides hope that is solid and sustaining!

See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him.  Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.  All who have this hope in him purify themselves, just as he is pure. - 1 John 3:1-3

Hoping in and seeking God purifies (renews) our minds, hearts, and lives.  In Him we receive His limitless love.  In Him we're called children of God.  What a title and position He's given us!  Let's continually fix our prayers, hope, focus, attention, love, and more on God the Father and Jesus Christ! 

My hope is built on nothing less
Than Jesus' blood and righteousness;
I dare not trust the sweetest frame,
But wholly lean on Jesus' name.
On Christ, the solid Rock, I stand;
All other ground is sinking sand. - "My Hope is Built on Nothing Less"


Following Through in Prayer

God knows our thoughts and minds.  While we can think good things and hopes toward others, prayer is what puts those thoughts into motion.  Prayer is what moves caring, concerned (but idle) thoughts into active pleas and sets those pleas before God- who can make a substantive difference in that moment, person, or matter.


So, move beyond merely thinking and wishing.  Take the matter to Him.  Engage God in prayer!  You'll likely notice a difference both in the person/matter you're praying for- as well as in yourself as God meets you, grows your faith, and more!

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