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In Feb. of 2009, our (then) 3year old daughter, Maggie, was diagnosed with Stage 4 Neuroblastoma: an aggressive children's cancer with (at that time) a 40% chance of survival.

For over a year, we fought this beast and Maggie endured much. She had surgery to remove the initial tumor and a Central line put in (a tube that sticks out of her chest to more easily access her blood vessels for less needle pricks). Maggie went thru 6 HARD rounds of chemo. After one really difficult one she was put on morphine for her mouth sores. Maggie almost overdosed from the morphine as her body wouldn't metabolize it - she received 2 doses of Narcan and had to have a head CT as she still wasn't responding normally. It is scary when all of the nurses of the unit and the on-call resident are all in your room at about 5am. Maggie went thru 2 stem cell transplants (where you receive enough chemo that it could kill you and then you get a transfusion of stem cells that "saves you" - hospitalized a little less than 4 weeks for each of those). Then she had 12 radiation treatments that took place 3.5 hours away from home. I had to give her approximately 90 shots over the course of her treatment - and I truly hate shots. I watched Maggie vomit all over the place and have diarrhea at the same time. She literally had no hair anywhere on her little body. I watched her blood pressure soar to 200+/120 and then get in a plane with her and get lifelined to to the Children's hospital 3 hours from home. I felt so helpless - if I could have done something for her I would have in a heartbeat. There was nothing I could do to take it away.

It was sometime in the hospital that I realized that God understood what it was like to watch a child go thru this pain and trauma. When I think of Jesus the King of Kings being born in a stable which is so unfit for royalty, I wince as I remember fighting for better accommodations for my daughter. As I thought about it, I realized that one major difference was that His Son died. Another difference was that He had a choice. He could have taken His Son off of that cross - he could have saved His Son from that horrible death but he didn't. At that moment He chose to love ME (and you) over His Son. Wow! I'm sorry but I can't think of anyone I love over my family.

Ephesians 3, Paul writes that he wants us to know "how wide and high and long and deep is the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge". What knowledge surpasses knowledge? Experience. In that hospital room, I experienced God's love in a new way.

This love makes me feel secure in Him and therefore increases my faith in Him and that what He puts in front of me will all come out ok in the end. Because of that faith, I am willing to find out what new challenge God has for me and I don't care how odd that I look because His Love his holding me in his hand.

May we all get a different perspective of the magnitude of the first Christmas present ever given: Jesus!

Maggie is cancer free today and we saw SO MANY miracles thru the battle and learned so much about HIM. He is Faithful!

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The Presence

The English language is interesting, isn't it? Try to say the words "presents" and "presence" so that they sound different. I can intone them differently but they don't really sound different. They are spelled differently but I can't make them sound differently.

So, what is the point? The culture in which we live is taken by "presents". I love to receive presents and I love to give presents. [Don't ask which gives me greater pleasure!] The media and advertisers helps, if not insists, that we focus on presents and the society measures our worth by the size or value of our presents.

I am trying to focus on the presents of Jesus - the presence of the Christ in my daily life. Presents are not bad but presence is better. Do I really tap into the presence of Christ on a regular basis? I want to be in the presence of the King of Kings who gives the greatest and best presents of all.

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Remembering

As my family and I start to focus on our first Christmas without our father, it is going to be important to remind everyone of the true meaning of this time of year. Jesus is the reason we are celebrating, and even though we are without one of the main cogs of our family, we still have a family in Heaven that is without equal.
This year we are going to focus most of our attention on God and his Son Jesus, who has brought us this far and will continue to guide us as we deal with our loss.
God Bless all of you and your families, and remember to focus on the REAL GIFT-Jesus the Christ.
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Better Than My Mother's

9570797063?profile=originalMy wife is a cook of cooks. It’s safe to say that she doesn’t compare to my mother . . . she actually does it better . . . hands down. Now I don’t want my Mom to know this (Shhh!) but she is a strong number 2 . . . I suspect however that this would not make her feel good at all.


It hasn’t always been this way with Elaine. I remember in 1976, sometime after our June the 5th wedding, as a newly married pastoral couple, inhabiting the 51 Wilson Ave. parsonage in Presque Isle ME, we sat down for a Sunday feast. Roast beef! The smell was tantalizing and we sat down together. Prayer . . . the first slice in my mouth and we were off to the races.


As we talked and as I chewed, and chewed . . . and chewed, the piece of meat just seemed to get bigger. I think, as I look back, that we were both trying to ignore what we were experiencing, but finally the roast overtook our ability to talk . . . and then we had to spit it out and start over.


It was a rump roast. The taste was fine but the more that you chewed on it the less likely you were to be able to swallow it. It just got bigger and bigger. My mouth was full and my stomach was empty.


I have found theology to be much the same as rump roast. There are certain things that seem to grow bigger the more that you chew on them. At times in my life, my head has been full and my heart has been empty.


It's not meant to be difficult or complicated or relegated to experts.


I could have starved to death chewing on rump. I could starve to death chewing on theology as well.

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Greater Works than Jesus?

Last week I celebrated by 37th birthday and it was nothing monumental. But out of curiosity, I researched some of the great accomplishments people have achieved before their 37th birthday. Michelangelo finished painting the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel. Robert Jarvik invented a pneumatically powered heart .Frederic William Herschel invented the contact lens. Francis Scott Key wrote "The Star Spangled Banner.” Amelia Earhart flew in an airplane across the Atlantic by herself. Last year, I successfully replaced a broken taillight on my car all by myself (applause please).

The greatest accomplishment in the world came nearly 2000 years ago when Jesus paid the penalty for sin as He died on a cross around the age of thirty-three. Just a few days before this event, the Lord would tell His disciples something truly amazing and intriguing. “You will do greater things than I have done.”
We need to rewind for a moment. The Son of God came to this earth through a miraculous birth and lived a perfect life. He performed countless miracles and emerged as the greatest teacher to ever live. He shouldered the weight of our sin and, in perfect humility and obedience, made the greatest sacrifice of love by offering Himself for us. What could someone do that is greater than the sum of these?
As Jesus sits with His disciples in the upper room for the last time, He proclaims this incredible promise. Judas has been dismissed and the disciples are trembling with fear. Their hearts are trouble at the prophetic instructions from the Lord about the events of the next few days. He speaks to them words of hope. He tells them, “You will do greater things than I have done.”
The current world record for running the mile is three minutes and forty three second, which is held by Hicham El Guerrouj. What if I told you that I possess a single pill that would enable you to break this record no matter your age or medical condition? Would say I was insane or question my truthfulness? The promise of Jesus was even more preposterous. That is until we clearly understand what these “greater works” are.
Jesus is talking about the results of the message that occur after His death and resurrection. This was all part of God’s plan. Jesus was preparing the disciples for a worldwide movement. What the body of Christ can do together in unity is incomprehensible.
When we see a verse like this, it is our unfortunate tendency to soften it. Jesus must have meant that the first disciples would do greater things, right? For example, after Peter’s first sermon, 3,000 people got saved. That result was a greater work. The Apostle Paul would take the Gospel throughout the entire Roman Empire. That progress was a greater work. We can think of many people throughout church history who have achieved great things for the cause of Christ. There is only one problem with thinking that Jesus is only talking about people with some kind of elite spiritual status: verse 12. “Whoever believes in Me…” Jesus simply states that every believer has this potential.
How are we to do greater works? Jesus gives us the two ingredients in the next few verses. “If you ask Me anything in My name, I will do it.” Pastor Ray Stedman once stated, “It is significant to note that, though Jesus never taught his disciples how to preach, he did teach them how to pray.” We cannot do anything great for the Kingdom of God unless we are connected to our Lord and His Will. We are not working for ourselves, but in His Power. Prayer is the essential first step of any great endeavor for the believer and for the Body.
The second ingredient for “greater things” is the power of the Holy Spirit. We do not have the strength to walk with Christ by ourselves. Jackie Robinson was the first black man to play major league baseball, but this pioneering came at a price. Jackie was criticized heavily for every single mistake. Once when he was playing on the team’s home field, he committed an error and the fans ridiculed him ruthlessly. That is until Pee Wee Reece, the shortstop, came over, put his arm around Robinson, and turned to the crowd. The crowd became instantly silent and Robinson believed that this moment saved his career.
Jesus stated that the Holy Spirit is our Helper. The root of the greek word comes from fortis, meaning to fortify or strengthen. The Holy Spirit in the life of a believer is like the steel beams that hold up a skyscraper. He is like the spine in a person’s back that keeps the Body standing. The Holy Spirit is not an accessory to the Christian life. He is absolutely essential. We could do nothing spiritually without His leading and teaching.
What “greater thing” does God have for you? What is the potential for your life and mine if we would simply yield to the work of the Holy Spirit? Only God knows the answer, but we do have the promise. ”I assure you: The one who believes in Me will also do the works that I do. And he will do even greater works than these...”

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Tool for Sowing the Gospel

The Gate Illustration.pdf

Have you ever wondered what to do after sharing the gospel with someone using and illustration like "The Bridge" or "2 Ways to Live" and your friend or acquaintance doesn't accept Christ? What do you do next? Share the same illustration with them over and over again until they accept Christ as their Savior? During my time ministering to students, co-workers, and friends in our neighborhood this problem has come up time and time again.

What I realized is that the gospel had not yet become a felt need for this friend. With this problem in mind, I created a sowing tool to share with them prior to moving towards sharing the gospel. It is called the Gate Illustration and it is based on Matthew 7:13-14 from the sermon on the mount. We have been using it as a sowing tool on our campus and in other areas of ministry for over 5 years with great results.

The illustration, along with detailed instructions, are attached to this post. Check it out...better yet, try it with a friend in advance of sharing the gospel with them and see if your friend's real need for a Savior becomes a felt need for them. You might just get a chance to share the gospel with them right then and there.

Please let me know how God uses you in your efforts to advance the gospel!!!

Brian
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Discipleship Retro

Have you noticed how many things have gone retro… clothes, cars, furniture, appliances. Vinyl records are making a comeback. I wish I had kept my leisure suits because I am sure they will return soon! Maybe even my bell bottom pants I wore in college. Some are nostalgic and want to return to the good ole days when church attendance was up and life seemed much simpler. This retro thinking reminds me of how we sometimes view discipleship.

We go to all the new conferences, seminars and read the latest books to get a grip on how to more effectively grow our churches and make disciples. Nothing wrong with that, but everyone seems to be looking for the discipleship silver bullet; that one easy step that will propel our church forward and solve all our problems. Maybe, something from the past was lost. We debate Sunday School versus small groups, traditional music versus contemporary, deacons versus elders, using hymn books versus projectors, and on and on.

The truth is the Lord can bless any church He chooses to bless regardless of their music or methods. 1 Cor 3:6 says, “I planted, Apollos watered, but God was causing the growth.” NASU “makes things grow” NIV “God gave the increase” KJV “God gave the growth” HCSB

The single factor I’ve observed in churches that are growing is the fact that they are committed to “make disciples.” They constantly celebrate baptisms and spiritual victories in the lives of their members and other lives that their members touch. They are not doing church but being church. The members have been equipped, trained and released to do ministry. All feel called to make disciples and all are using their spiritual gifts to make a difference in their churches and communities. This is not rocket science.

My observation is that discipleship happens best in small groups with someone who loves the Lord and loves people and is willing to spend some time and energy helping these people grow in Christ. Jesus modeled this with His disciples. We cannot improve on His Message or His Model for doing discipleship.

We need to retro back to the first century.

I believe it was Will Rogers who said, “Nostalgia is not what it used to be.” I do wish I could wear my bell bottoms again.

Keep the Son in your Eyes,

Mike James (blog- 28nineteen.org)

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DEW - Disciple Maker, Equipper, and Witness. These three spheres of mission in the NT are either considered as stages in one overarching goal, separate functions for different members within the church, or a complete set of requirements for every individual believer.




5 QUESTIONS


1. Are there any other ways in which you would describe these three spheres?

2. Is it possible for a church to exist in areas 1, 2, or 3?

3. Is it possible for and individual within the church to exist in areas 1, 2, or 3?

4. What would you call the RED ZONE?


5. Are there any inherent weaknesses in areas 1, 2, or 3?
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Darkness Upon Darkness

Last weekend, we attended an early Christmas concert. It was amazing. One line from one song caught my attention: Darkness Upon Darkness. I never thought about the idea that it can be MORE than dark. True darkness is already complete. Years ago, we took a tour of Mamouth Cave in Southern Kentucky. Deep within the cavern the lights were turned off and we experienced COMPLETE darkness. Our eyes didn't adjust; we could see nothing. As a claustrophobic, the darkness was overwhelming, even oppressive.

So my mind has been turning over the idea of Darkness upon Darkness. Without Christ, the world was in Darkness, a Darkness that would have remained through history without Him. What kinds of Darkness:

1. Obviously, the world was in spiritual Darkness. Sin had separated them from God and the Darkness was SO great that only the Light of Christ could penetrate it.

2. The world was in religious Darkness. Obedience to rules and regulations had again separated those who worshipped God from the One they worshipped. They couldn't get past the rules to come into His presence.

3. The world was in Darkness because it was without the Light of Christ. The Darkness was truly the absence of Light.

Samson is a good example of one placed in Darkness. He was in physical Darkness after his eyes were put out. He was in spiritual Darkness for the choices he had made. He had one request of God––to give him the opportunity to do what he had been called to do before he died. Samson understood why he was in complete Darkness––Darkness upon Darkness.

As the Christmas season begins and we celebrate the Light that comes to the world only through Christ, may we all be aware of the Darkness that surrounds us and the Light Christ brings to us!

Margie Williamson
Community Manager
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Signs

The Pharisees asked YESHUA when the Kingdom of GOD would come. “The Kingdom of GOD,” He answered, “does not come with visible signs; nor will people be able to say, ‘Look! Here it is!’ or, ‘Over there!’ Because, you see, the Kingdom of GOD is among you.” (Luke 17:20-21)


To the Pharisees, the Kingdom of GOD is expected to come with a lot of pomp and Messiah would come in glory with His holy angels and smite the enemies of Israel once for all. Today, rabbinical teachings expound that the Messiah need not be sinless but would come to unite all Israel and the world in one government.

He will rebuild the Temple on the mount in all its glory and lead Israel’s army to conquer its enemies.
The Messiah will restore the temple sacrifices and the Aaronic priesthood and would strictly enforce the Torah.


But is that what the Scriptures teach? The rabbinical teachings was first popularized by Rambam Maimonides and widely accepted by Orthodox Jews. However, it runs counter to the teachings of the prophets and YESHUA himself.


The prophets teach that the Messiah will be born of a virgin and is sinless and must first suffer and be rejected by His own people and die for sinners; then the Messiah will conquer death. The Messiah will
bring people out of bondage and free the prisoners and the oppressed. The prophecies depict the Messiah as GOD on earth, performing wonders and expressing GOD’s wisdom. They also prophesied that the Messiah will come again in glory with His holy angels to rule the world with an iron scepter. He will cover Jerusalem with shalom like a river. The Scriptures also prophesy that the Messiah will judge all unbelievers and throw them into the Lake of Fire; but for the faithful, He will give them their just reward. There will be new heavens and a new earth and ADONAI will rule in the new Jerusalem forever and ever!(see Mic 4:14, 5:1; Ps 2:7-8, 16:10, 22:16-17; Ps 72:10,11; Ps 118:22; Prov 30:4; Is 7:14; Is 9:5-6;
Is 11:2, 61:1,2; 35:4-6; 42:18; Is 53; Is 50:6, 66:15-22; Jer 23:5-6; Dan 9:24-26; Zech 9:9, 11:12-13, 12:10, 13:7; Mal 3:1; Jude 14,15(quoting Enoch)).


Daniel prophesied that there will be a Kingdom, not of this world; a Kingdom, whose origin is ADONAI and it will conquer all the kingdoms of the world and would last forever (Dan 2:44-45). ‘The time is coming when I will gather together all nations and languages. They will come
and see My glory, and I will give them a sign. I will send some of their survivors to the nations of Tarshish, Pul, Lud, Tuval, Greece and more distant coasts, where they have neither heard of My
fame nor seen My glory. They will proclaim My glory in these nations, and they will bring all your kinsmen out of all the nations as an offering to ADONAI…to My holy mountain, Jerusalem,” says
ADONAI (Is 66:18-20).


The Kingdom of GOD starts from within as man believes and confesses with his mouth that YESHUA is both LORD and Savior. At that point, the FATHER seals the man with the HOLY SPIRIT as a guarantee of his eternal destiny. The Kingdom begins a radical change from the inside out until the person thinks, sees, speaks and acts like YESHUA. He can’t help but affect all the people around him. This is how the Kingdom grows, one person at a time. The believer’s extreme experience with the LORD changes him and his world. To him, there is no middle ground. A fire burns eternally within him to speak and to act for YESHUA.


Are you this person? Have you been radically changed?


There are no lukewarm people in the Kingdom. To walk with YESHUA is an extreme experience!



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I believe we need transparency in the pulpit now more than ever. We are in an age where transparency is looked upon as a weekness instead of a strongpoint. Especially when your a leader in the church. Leaders are telling their congragation to go out and share the the gospel, when they themselves have trouble sharing. Leaders need to tell the church they go through the same issues as anyone else does. We need more confession.

I realize that certin things are more private than others. These things like any other confession needs prayer before telling the church.But these private confessions need to be shared as well. Leaders need to be real with the church that they are shepards over. The church will respect the leaders more for their honesty. Like any reltionship their needs to be a covenent between the leaders and the church.

In 2 Corinthians 11:30 Pus says "If I must boast, I will boast of the things that show my weakness". Later in chapter 12 God says My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness". If you read chaper 12 of 2 Corinthians you will see that God will show how strong he is when we confess are weeknesses. In 1 Corinthians 1:20-21 Paul says, "Where is the wise man? Where is the scholar? Where is the philosopher of the age? Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world? 21 For since in the wisdom of God the world through its wisdom did not know him, God was pleased through the foolishness of what was preached to save those who believe".(NIV) God also says that "God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. He chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things-and the things that are not-to nullify the things that are".(NIV) So as you can see God uses our weeknesses for his will to be done. i believe this is true humility.

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Real Life

Then ADONAI said,


“Because these people approach Me with empty words,


And the honor they bestow on Me is mere lip-service;


While in fact, they have distanced their hearts from Me,


And their fear of Me is just a regulation of human origin –


Therefore, I will have to keep shocking these people with astounding


and amazing things until the ‘wisdom’ of their ‘wise ones’ vanishes,


And the ‘discernment’ of their ‘discerning ones’ is hidden away.”


- Isaiah 29:13-14



At the time of the prophet Isaiah, many of the people of Judah were worshipping other gods while they also sacrificed to ADONAI as part of their obligation as a people. They thought that by observing
the official feasts and giving their sacrifices and keeping the regulations of their religious leaders they had paid their dues and would be exempted from judgment. But they neglected to keep the
real Torah which should have been resident in their hearts and in their minds and fulfilled through their hands. They showed how much they trusted ADONAI when they made a treaty with Egypt for
protection against the Assyrians. They were all swept away and their protectors also captured and subjugated by their feared enemy. These were all prophesied while their ‘prophets’ and priests preached peace and prosperity.


Today, many supposed Christians play religious games, just like the Israelites of old. Many attend church meetings, pray during meals and even attend religious conferences. But Truth is vindicated by its fruit. Church membership is not a relationship with YESHUA. Attending Sunday church is not
discipleship. Prayer during meals is not communion with the Holy. Attending religiousconferences is not real worship. Serving in ministry is not life in the Spirit.


Enoch never attended a congregational meeting, but there is one thing he majored on that really hit the spot – Enoch walked with ELOHIM! So did Noah, Abraham, Isaac and all the others in the Hall of
Faith. If a believer has done all the other things in service to GOD but has not really “talked” and “walked” with GOD, all of it was for nothing, as if “by works”!


Many of the Israelites missed it because they approached the life of faith as if by works. We can easily fulfill our obligations but if YESHUA is not involved in our moment by moment walk, our
lives are in vain. The more we distance ourselves from YESHUA, the more dull our hearing become and our hearts become hardened.


How can life be true life if it is detached from the very Source of Life?

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Numbers

And there is one LORD, one trust, one immersion, and one GOD, the FATHER of all, who rules over all, works through all and is in all (Eph 4:5)



Have you ever wondered why GOD created only one man at first? Why not several men? He obviously wanted all men to have a common ancestor. But more than that, He created man in His own image and likeness and commanded Adam to reproduce His image and likeness, not Adam’s. The flesh profits nothing but GOD’s spiritual DNA is of utmost importance. As GOD’s representative, Adam bore GOD’s glory and manifested GOD’s authority on earth.


GOD reminded Israel, “Hear O Israel, ADONAI our GOD, ADONAI is one (Deut 6:4). In the Hebrew language, that every citizen uttered daily to communicate, the first alphabet, alef (א ), brings to their attention, the presence of ELOHIM. Alef also stands for number 1 and is written in three strokes reminding them that GOD is One but is also a Trinity.


The number 1 point upwards telling us to look up before anything else. Man was created to stand erect unlike other animals so he can easily look up to the heavens. Man was created to rule as GOD’s number 1
over all creatures and over all the earth.


Adam failed, but the second Adam was victorious. YESHUA said, “I AM the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the ending…” YESHUA is the Alef and the Tav, the first and the last letter of the
Hebrew alphabet. In Him resides all the spiritual powers and energy of creation. As GOD spoke all the words that created all, He spoke the very essence of YESHUA into each particle of matter.
For by Him all things created that are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible and invisible, whether they be thrones, dominions, or principalities or powers; all things were created by Him and for him. And He is before all things and by Him all things consist. YESHUA holds first place in everything! (Col 1:15-18)



Alef is GOD’s number and Tav in ancient Hebrew is symbolized by a cross – the covenant seal.



In binary mathematics, there are only two numbers, 1 and 0. In computer programming, 1 is equivalent to “on” and 0 is equivalent to “off”. In the same way, if you are born from above, you are GOD’s kind, your spirit is alive or “on”. If you are an unbeliever, your spirit is dead or “off”. The only way, you can be alive or “on” is to make the LORD YESHUA, your LORD and Savior. YESHUA is the Way, the Truth and the Life; no one comes to the FATHER except through Him (Jn 14:6).



GOD chooses those who choose Him alone!


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Lessons from a cat

“As the deer pants for the water-brooks, my soul longs for you.


I am thirsty for GOD, for the living GOD!”


- Psalm 42:1,2



I have a beautiful male Maine Coon named Prosciutto. He is not perfect, but he has a beautiful light brown fur with tiger design and is very endearing, and patiently waits for my wife and I to come home. He seems to know the exact time of our arrival. No matter what time it is, he is there by the door, waiting.



Prosciutto is very sociable and never temperamental. He loves to be brushed, petted and carried in my arms. Every day, when we arrive, he would meow softly begging to be carried and stroked.
He loves to be fed from our hand and drink water from our cup. Early in the morning, he would meow softly, asking permission to come up to bed. Then, he would curl up on my armpit as I gently stroke him. Prosciutto is our stress reliever.



A few days ago, GOD impressed on me that I should be more like Prosciutto when I come to Him. I should emulate his desire to be with me; to always want to snuggle up and be fed from His hand. To always desire to commune with Him whenever and wherever, unashamedly. I should
depend on Him for life itself!


The LORD used Prosciutto to tell me how to worship Him. Prosciutto is not rebellious nor proud.
He is always looking up at me, always attentive and loving. Prosciutto is not an ordinary cat because I
believe GOD is using him to teach me and my wife a lesson on communion with Him.



The SPIRIT says, “Come away with Me!”



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How different we would be if we were to follow Jesus' plan for Biblical reconciliation.

Disciples must confront each other about their sins privately,
and never engage in or be a party to gossip and tale-bearing. This article provides a step-by-step process "If a brother sins against you."

This should be one of the first lessons taught and lived out by those discipling others. Disciples must confront each other about their sins privately, and never engage in or be a party to gossip and tale-bearing.

Read and do what Jesus said without addition or excuse:
Jesus said, “Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he hears you, you have gained your brother” (Matthew 18:15).

First, Christ is speaking about a brother. This passage applies only to believers.

Secondly, Jesus is talking about sin. “If a brother sins….” The Greek word used is hamartano which means to miss the mark and not share in the prize. The mark is God’s holy law. It means that we should not take offense over personality differences, cultural differences, socioeconomic differences, etc. Because we are sinners, we do not need fairness – we need mercy.

Thirdly, the sin committed is personal - it is against you and not someone else. Christ is discussing private offenses and not public sins. If the sin is committed against you alone, or if you observe a brother commit a sin in private, then you are required to keep the matter private and go to your brother. Public sins are handled in a different manner. A sin that is public and known by the whole church requires a public rebuke and repentance.

If a disciple overhears a conversation between two believers in which he thinks something offensive was said by one believer to another, it is the person’s responsibility to whom the statement was directed to either overlook the matter in love or confront the person who made the statement. The person who overheard the conversation has absolutely no business taking offense and spreading the matter around the church when the person to whom the statement was made has not taken offense and would like to drop the matter altogether. If you believe that a brother is covering a sin that is so serious that you think it needs to be dealt with, then go to him privately and discuss it. But Christians who go about the church and meddle in affairs that should not concern them are gossips and busybodies and unnecessarily disturb the peace of Christ’s church. Gossip is sin.

Lastly, the offended brother is to go and confront the brother who sinned in private and alone. “You, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.” This is the first command in the text. This is a divine imperative from the lips of our Lord Jesus Christ. This procedure for dealing with a brother who has committed sin is not optional for disciples. These are not suggestions. These are not just words of advice.

Often when accusations are leveled against a brother behind his back and spread throughout the church and the accuser and accused disagree, factions or camps develop within the church. People have a tendency to take sides in a dispute. When those on opposite sides become heated and obstinate, often the result is a serious schism among the brethren. How many churches have a split because someone did not obey Christ’s simple command to go to a brother privately and keep the matter private? Such divisions often take years to heal. It is a great sin to bring dissension and strife into the body of Christ. Elders have a solemn responsibility to ensure that Christ’s instructions are followed. Those who disobey Christ and bring strife and bitterness into the church must be rebuked publicly before all. When church leaders know that Christ’s command has been violated and yet do nothing, they are partly to blame for the resulting chaos this brings to God’s Church.

Why are you to go to your brother?
You are there to bring about biblical reconciliation. The passage says: “If he hears you, you have gained your brother.” Which means that the erring brother has agreed with you, admitted his sin and that you are now reconciled with your brother. But what is biblical reconciliation?

Apologies are fine when you accidentally bump into someone at the shopping mall but they should never be used as a substitute for biblical reconciliation. Whenever sin is involved it is simply not enough to say “I’m sorry” or “I apologize.” Jay Adams explains why: “An apology is an inadequate humanistic substitute for the real thing. Nowhere do the Scriptures require, or even encourage, apologizing. To say ‘I’m sorry’ is a human dodge for doing what God has commanded.” The biblical response is to say: “Yes, I am guilty. I have sinned against you. Will you forgive me?” The reason that an apology is inadequate when actual sin has occurred is because it does not elicit a proper biblical response. When a believer admits his guilt and then says: “Will you forgive me?”, the Christian who has come to confront him regarding his sin must say: “Yes, I forgive you.” This places the ball in his court. He must either explicitly forgive or openly rebel against God. When the brother says, “I forgive you,” he promises never to bring the matter up against you; never to bring the matter up again to others (even his spouse); and never to bring the matter up to himself by dwelling on it and dredging up bitterness, etc. This is biblical reconciliation.

Are you offended or angry with someone right now? What are you doing to resolve your differences? Don't let this day end before you begin to work on mending your relationship. Be a doer, not just a hearer of God’s Word.

Let us purpose to grow in grace and in truth.

Doug Morrell
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Spike the Ball

Spike the Ball


A friend of mine thinks that we who do ministry need to learn to “spike the ball.” When football players finally get the ball into the end zone, they don’t stand around the goal post looking depressed, grumbling to one another about how many plays they had to run or talking about how they fumbled the ball on first down ten minutes
ago. No! They celebrate! They give each other high fives and jump up in the air and they spike the ball. At that moment it doesn’t matter whether or not they played flawless football. It doesn’t matter how many interceptions were thrown, or how many times the quarterback got sacked. They got the ball in the end zone and that’s the whole point of the game. It puts them six points closer to victory.


There is a conversation I often hear among women who work in ministry. It is a conversation that
begins with the sentence, “I feel like a failure.” It has surprised me to discover how widespread this feeling is. I have not merely heard it from one or two women who had a bad year or from a woman on a campus that has suffered a significant drop in numbers around their ministry. It appears to me that it is the appraisal of many women I know regarding their lives and ministries.


I have been thinking about this and trying to figure out why we often feel this way. (Is it just the women?) I’m sure there are many possible reasons. My guess, though, is that this vague feeling flows mostly from a failure to remember how the kingdom of God works – through ordinary people living ordinary lives. It also works slowly and out of sight, like the mustard seed and the yeast in the parables Jesus tells in Matthew 13:31-33:
“The kingdom of heaven is like a mustard seed, which a man took and planted in his field. Though it is the smallest of all your seeds, yet when it grows, it is the largest of garden plants and becomes a tree, so that the birds of the air come and perch in its branches.” The second parable says: “The kingdom of heaven is like yeast that a woman took and mixed into a large amount of flour until it worked all through the dough."


I think most of us long for and expect our ministry to have more “wow” factor:

  • The series of weekly meetings where worship was awesome and the messages were creative, clear and compelling (move over Louie Giglio!)
  • The small group Bible study you led that turned into genuine community, where girls shared their hearts, and brought their friends and they encountered God’s Spirit at work through his word
  • That one on one where your words were not your own and seemed to penetrate to the very heart of the issue and a girl’s life was changed
  • The party you pulled off and everyone is still talking about how much fun it was
  • The ten women you personally led to faith in Christ this semester

A lot of parties are fun, but not that memorable. Not every Bible study or one on one will be so clearly effective. Sometimes you only get to be one link in someone’s journey to faith in Christ. So, be as faithful as you can with the ministry God has given you. Work hard. Pray hard. Learn from your mistakes. Accept the fact that both big events and small group Bible studies rarely come off without any glitches. Don’t beat yourself up over events or
conversations that were not “perfect.” (I often labor over these occasional articles and then don’t send them because I can’t get them just perfect.) Never forget for one moment that God is the ONLY ONE who is always faithful, perfectly insightful and, of course, wondrously creative. Consider the possibility that good is sometimes good enough. Go ahead and spike the ball.



© Melody Richeson, July 2010

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Can I Really Disciple Someone?

I remember when I first began to understand that I wanted to give my life helping make disciples. I was introduced to the idea when I was still in high school. I began to grasp it and actually try to do it as a college student. I was captured by the vision of helping young men and women walk with God. It was a compelling life purpose; however, I often felt handicapped because I had never “been discipled.” Then, in my late twenties I went on staff with a collegiate ministry where this was to be my full time job: Making disciples. Suddenly, I felt woefully inadequate as I was faced day after day with the needs, questions, eagerness and sinfulness of a
large group of college students under my care and direction.


My network of relationships at the time put me around a lot of people who came from large,
prominent disciple-making ministries. They all seemed to have skills I didn’t. I perceived them as smarter than me, more effective than me, and likely more spiritual than me. They shared a common vocabulary which I was unfamiliar with and often spoke of their past mentors. I regularly felt like a misfit, an imposter, or worse, a hopeless case. I found myself thinking, “Gee, if I had only had gone to college there” or “I wish I could have attended that church.” Of course, that kind of thinking quickly deteriorated into, “Well, not much can be expected of me, after all, I didn’t have the right training. I’ll just have to muddle along and do the best I can.”


One weekend I was invited to join some friends who were hosting one of their mentors, a man who was well known as a very effective disciple-maker. God had used him tremendously in these friends’ lives and, although I had never been around him personally, I had a lot of respect for him. It was a small group of ten or twelve and we sat casually in the living room as he shared his thoughts on making disciples and tried to encourage us
regarding our various ministries. Toward the end of the evening he invited us to ask questions. Somewhere during the next few minutes I took a deep breath and found the courage to ask, “What if no one ever discipled me? How can I learn how to disciple someone else if no one ever discipled me?” (I’m pretty certain I said this with a distinct whine in my voice.) He looked at me and replied, “No one ever discipled me.” I was
stunned. And convicted. And challenged. Here was a man who had influenced hundreds of people and no one had ever personally discipled him. In that moment it began to dawn on me: there is no magic wand. No secret handshake. I am a disciple by following Jesus with all my heart, and I make disciples by loving people and coming alongside them on their journey to know, love and follow Jesus.


Not long after this encounter, I was reading Romans in my Phillips Bible. It translates Romans 10:12*
this way: “For all have the same Lord, whose boundless resources are sufficient for all who turn to him in faith.” Finally, after all my self-pity and excuses I began to understand. I have all I need to love and minister to people because I have the Lord Himself. His boundless resources are available to me. To me! There are no formulas, no charmed curriculum that “works” better than others. I have everything I need in Him.


(*Note: I realize this verse in Romans is about salvation not equipping, but I don’t think it is a stretch to apply it as I
felt God applied it to my heart that day.)



© Melody Richeson, August 2010

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Phrases for when you make converts instead of Making Disciples.


#1 - “Now that you have been baptized, and while we are still in this water, let me wash my hands of you."

#2 - “After you fill out that information card, you will probably never see me again."

#3 - “Jesus has a wonderful plan for YOUR life that doesn't include ME."

#4 - “Now that you have prayed that prayer, go in peace and leave me in peace."

#5 - “Well, lets cover these Denomination Distinctives 1st, and then we'll get to the other stuff... eventually."

#6 - “For now, just keep eating that Goat Chow. I'll be back with the Sheep food later."

#7 - “Let me introduce you to Fred, he will follow up with you.”

#8 - “Yes, of course you may keep your consolation evangelism gadget. You earned it.”

#9 - “No, no, no - absolutely no strings attached.”

#10 - “Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed”

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Fish Tanks and Fire

Not long ago I opened an e-mail from a young person preparing for baptism. She asked the following question: "How do you explain a God of love destroying the world by fire? Doesn't that seem harsh to you?"

Sitting wordless at my computer, I began to think. Those were good questions, but in my youth I had never thought to ask them. Yet, as an adult, I sensed that at some level they might not be answered convincingly for me either.

I tried to screen out my preconceived reaction and gut response to these questions and look at them from an adolescent point of view. I could see how the words "fire," "destruction," and "harsh" could possibly grate against the spiritual sensibilities of a young person whom we as a church had intentionally sought to ground firmly in an understanding of God's grace. Did she comprehend God's big-picture plan?

I was sure that God wanted her to have an answer that would bring peace to her heart without me rewriting the entire history of the plan of salvation, or her getting overwhelmed and clicking the "shut down" button. But did I, in my own spiritual arsenal, have an answer that would be personally genuine, as well as true?

I sat back, prayed for insight from the Holy Spirit, and began clicking the keys on my keyboard:

"Satan's main job on earth is to get us to think that God is harsh, judgmental, and unloving--everything that He isn't. Satan wants us to think these things about God so we won't trust Him to save us from the yuckiness of sin.

"Here is one way to think about why a God of love would cleanse the world by fire.

"Imagine that you spent lots of time and money creating the most awesome fish aquarium you could. You got everything set up just right--plants, statues, decorations, rock formations, etc., then bought some exotic fish to put in it. You enjoyed watching them swim around their beautiful tank, and you didn't feel so alone when you were in your room doing your homework.

"But, let's also imagine that you have a really pesky younger cousin who is out to ruin your life. Every time he comes over to your house he puts nasty stuff in your fish tank when you aren't looking. It starts to cloud up the water, stick to all the pretty things, and make the fish sick.

"So you get one of those little net things and try to catch all the fish so you can get them out of that awful environment and save them until you can make a new, clean home for them. You are able to get some of the fish--the ones that will let you pick them up in your little net and save them. But a few just avoid your net and won't let you catch them. They hide behind the yuck-coated scenery.

"Finally, you have to call your rescue mission to a halt so that you can dump out all the slimy decorations and foul-smelling water (and the few fish who won't let you catch them), scrub the tank with special cleaners, and start all over to create a beautiful home for the fish you rescued.

"Imagine if some of the fish kept swimming around out of the reach of your net, saying, 'I hear that mean old girl who set up this tank and put us here is going to clean it out with bleach and destroy us all. How can someone who pretends to love us do something like that? Isn't that kind of harsh?'

"What would you tell that fish if you could get through to it?"

The computer keys stopped clacking, and I sat back to ponder. I had just preached a sermon to myself. Sure, I had never thought to ask those questions when I was an adolescent. But now I asked myself how much of my adult like has been spent swimming around the idea of a God of judgment who is watching to see how and when I will mess up again? And how often have I forgotten about the sad tears of a loving Creator who doesn't want to miss any little fish when He dumps out the tank filled with sin?

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Basic Faith

The emissaries said to the LORD, “Increase our trust.” The LORD replied, “If you had trust as tiny as a mustard seed, you could say to this fig tree, ‘Be uprooted and replanted in the sea!’ and it would obey you. If one of you has a slave tending the sheep or plowing, when he comes back from
the field, will you say to him, ‘Come along now, sit down and eat?’ No, you’ll say, ‘Get my supper ready, dress for work, and serve me until I have finished eating and drinking; after that, you may eat and drink.’ Does he thank the slave because he did what he was told to do? No! It’s the same with you – when you have done everything you were told to do, you should be saying, ‘We’re just ordinary slaves, we have only done our duty.’
(Luke 17:5-10)


The emissaries of the religious leaders clamored for the LORD YESHUA to increase their faith. Surprisingly, the LORD told them a parable. To the disciples of the LORD YESHUA, the
secrets of the Kingdom is revealed; but to curiosity seekers, the message is veiled.


The basic amount of faith or trust in a believer is the size of a mustard seed. Yet, with a little mustard seed faith, a fig tree would obey him! It is quite uncommon in our present world to witness this kind of faith, even with all the faith teachings that abound in our midst. YESHUA once posed a question,
“When the Son of Man comes, would He find faith in the earth?”


So, the parable is a rebuke, not just to the emissaries, but even to the disciples who exhibited so little faith. If a believer cannot even use the mustard seed faith which the HOLY SPIRIT has given him, how could he ask for more? If we have not even done our duty in exercising our little faith, we are faithless servants, not sons. A faithful servant does his duty but a son has the FATHER’s DNA and acts like the FATHER. A son speaks the FATHER’s words and works the FATHER’s works.


To believe in YESHUA is the FATHER’s work. Whatever YESHUA did, the adopted son also does because he bears YESHUA’s character (Name) (John 14:12).


GOD’s power has given us everything we need for life and godliness, through our knowing the One who called us to His own glory and goodness. By these He has given us valuable and superlatively great promises, so that through them you might come to share in GOD’s nature and escape the corruption which evil desires have brought into the world (2 Peter 1:3-4). We need to declare the promises of GOD to be true in our lives and act accordingly. This is the truth that every believer must stand on daily.


We walk by faith and not by sight. The righteous shall live by his faith!


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